» Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:15 pm Timmy told Sally his unreasonable feelings towards you. He bad mouthed you to a friend of his that he probably didn't know you knew.
Sally told you about Timmy's bad mouthing you, but tried to keep his name a secret, so he wouldn't find out she told you.
And Sally thinks YOU have the big mouth? Give me a break. If her big mouth kept Timmy's feelings secret, like Timmy originally intended, none of this would have happened. But instead, not only did she tell you, but she managed to make YOU fell bad because SHE couldn't keep a secret. This secret, had she kept it, would not have hurt her, and she had no desire to know who said it because she knew who said it already. But this directly affected you and you had every right to know who said it, but she wouldn't tell you in order to save her ass.
Simply put, the only reason she's mad at you is because now she'll get in trouble with Timmy for telling you the secret. She's mad at you because, in her little world, it's YOUR fault she has such a big mouth.
Stop apologizing, Nextmastermind, because this is so far from being your fault it's pathetic. YOU should be pissed at HER for being so damn stupid and manipulative.
Sally told you about Timmy's bad mouthing you, but tried to keep his name a secret, so he wouldn't find out she told you.
And Sally thinks YOU have the big mouth? Give me a break. If her big mouth kept Timmy's feelings secret, like Timmy originally intended, none of this would have happened. But instead, not only did she tell you, but she managed to make YOU fell bad because SHE couldn't keep a secret. This secret, had she kept it, would not have hurt her, and she had no desire to know who said it because she knew who said it already. But this directly affected you and you had every right to know who said it, but she wouldn't tell you in order to save her ass.
Simply put, the only reason she's mad at you is because now she'll get in trouble with Timmy for telling you the secret. She's mad at you because, in her little world, it's YOUR fault she has such a big mouth.
Stop apologizing, Nextmastermind, because this is so far from being your fault it's pathetic. YOU should be pissed at HER for being so damn stupid and manipulative.
Dear lord, you hit it on the head:
The way she sees it, because NMM started asking around, then it told Timmy that Sally had told you about him taking offense. He's most likely now angry at her, and she blames you for HER fault, because she's most likely too shallow to connect the dots ("I was being a friend for telling him!" "He wasn't being a friend by asking around, because that tells Timmy that I told his secret to NMM!").
Hot damn, and I was hard pressed to think of a real life example of Double Think. This one shines as a golden example of Double Think.
