http://faqsmedia.ign.com/faqs/image/article/703/703867/geleto2_es4o_worldmap.jpg
Here is a Picture of the Ingame Map for Elder Scrolls Oblivion that has All Locations Marked,
Ruins, Caves, Mines, etc
Thanks. Someone really put a lot of work into that. Ask a moderator to post it in this http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/310239-faq-cheats-hints-spoilers/ (and while they're at it, fix the screwed-up font color).
I prefer http://www.morrowind-oblivion.com/oblivion_interactive_map.php myself.