This is Skyrim, get a mace and beat the hell out of it. Make it scared of you.
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But yeah, OP, I feel your pain. There's very little things that I'm scared of, but creepy crawlies do me in like nobody's business. I usually go into third person and position my character so that it's inbetween the camera and the spider as much as possible, and then try to just focus on another part of the screen like my health bar, and only watch the combat through my peripheral vision.