First of all how do i check my modlists, so i can copy and paste them? ( i have fomm but i didn't see an option and its not in the .ini )

But will 19th and 20th century weapons and xCALIBER munitions work with ironsites

I don't know about iron sights, but to find the load order you just have to click the "Load Order Report" button in FOMM.

:banghead:
I really did look for a long time >.>

Can someone just check my whole load order, im having a lot of conflicts and load order works differently in FO then in morrowind so i really don't know what im doing.

Fallout3.esmPointLookout.esmAnchorage.esmThePitt.esmBrokenSteel.esmZeta.esmRR5MoreMales.esm* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Vendor).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateAFS Enclave.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRR5MoreFemales.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century Weapons.esm* This mod does not exist in the current templateFNNCQ.esm* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Containers).esp* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (NPC_Settler).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateFallsChurchMetroFix.esm (Inactive)Phalanx-PointLookout-Navmesh.esmAtarixQuestFixedFF.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRR Companion Vault 20thCW Supply.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateRR Companion Vault Attackers.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateCombatEnhanced-Package v02.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateCALIBR.esmxCALIBR.esm* This mod does not exist in the current templateRRCompanionVault.esm* This mod does not exist in the current templateW_EC.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateEnclaveCommander-OA-Pitt-Steel.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateGlobaltravelsystem.esm (Inactive)GTSEssentials.esm (Inactive)japanese_menace.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateReykjavik.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateArc Blade V1e.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateBunker72 v3.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateB72v3 Clutterfree.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateB72v3-02.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateB72v3_MHOO.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateAFS Brisbane.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateProject Beauty HD version.esmPhalanx-Uninstall.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Brotherhood_Outcast).esp* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (TEST Container).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateRTS.esm (Inactive)RR_Refurbished.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRRNoClothesRemoved.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateEnclaveCommander.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateEnclaveCommander-OA.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateEnclaveCommander-OA-Steel.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateEnclaveCommander-Steel.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateMiniHideout.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateMegaton House and Theme Overhaul.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateSharing and Caring Companions.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRREnclaveBrokenSteel.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRRWastelandPosters.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatePhalanx-OPTIONAL-WeaponRepairLists.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRRGuards.esm (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateW_mod.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateRR Default NPC Disabler.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateeyes_hairpack_en.esp (Inactive)CALIBRxMerchant.esp (Inactive)Fellout-Full.espFellout-BrokenSteel.espFellout-PointLookout.espFellout-Zeta.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateChimera.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateFellout-pipboylight.espShadySands.esp (Inactive)Project Beauty.esp (Inactive)lll.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateSSS.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateBL_Sydney.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatesydney.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatesadasd.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateWarkeybad.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateBLsydney.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatexCALIBRmunitions.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateWeaponModKits.esp (Inactive)20th Century v5 ALIVE (Slaver).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateWeaponModKits - OperationAnchorage.esp (Inactive)   Requires Anchorage.ESMRTS_Life_Of_Raider_Addon.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateWeaponModKits - ThePitt.esp (Inactive)   Requires ThePitt.ESMWeaponModKits - BrokenSteel.esp (Inactive)   Requires BrokenSteel.ESMFeng Shui.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Raider).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateWeaponModKits - PointLookout.esp (Inactive)   Requires PointLookout.ESM20th Century v5 ALIVE (Chinese Ghoul).esp* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (SuperMutant).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateKelseyCompanion.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatePhalanx-OPTIONAL-BROKENSTEEL-WeaponRepairLists.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Talon_Regulator).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateoutcast_comp.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatePhalanx-OPTIONAL-VendorChanges.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateWeaponModKits - Zeta.esp (Inactive)   Requires Zeta.ESMPhalanx-OPTIONAL-WeaponChange.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template20th Century v5 ALIVE (Vault 101).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templatePhalanx-DogmeatEnemyTweaks.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateLt Williams Companion.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateDragonskin Tactical Outfit.espPhalanx-MainFollowerModule.espPhalanx-BrokenSteel-Integration.esp   Requires BrokenSteel.esmb_outcast.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatewarkeypad02.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatePhalanx-PointLookout-Integration.esp   Requires PointLookout.esmPhalanx-PerksAndStims.esp (Inactive)20th Century v5 ALIVE (RivetCity).esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateSydney Follower.esp (Inactive)Sydney Follower - Load Order Fix.esp (Inactive)Choose your own hairstyle (load this last on FOMM).esp (Inactive)MyMansion.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatexCALIBR_override.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatePersonalVertibird.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateCombat Enhanced-Tactics.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateDriveableMotorCycle.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateAdvancedReconGear.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateNAPA.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templateMan_addon.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateMannequin.esp* This mod does not exist in the current templatenightvisiongogglesft.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateAtarixQuestChapter1.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateJessiCompanion.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateCyberneticDawn.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateMavroshs Facticius Humanus.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatejapanese_menace_lite.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templatejapanese_armor_set.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateZombie Apocalypse - Point Lookout.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateSShop.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateZombie Apocalypse.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current templateArms_dealer_V1.esp (Inactive)* This mod does not exist in the current template 

ignore the *this mod does not exist in the current template. Thats just my laziness with load order
But also i still wan't to know if ironsites will work with all these mods.