I do understand that, as I used to not like turn based combat as well. What I don't understand is how the new gamers downrate a game on it even though they haven't even bothered to give it a shot.
Well, the simple answer to that is that many people in this new generation of gamers believe that they know better without actually experiencing something. It's actually a trait that shows up in many other areas, not just gaming. I don't know whether to call it arrogance, or ignorance, or both.
Bottom line is, if someone tries something and they don't like it, that's all good. But if they criticize something and haven't or are unwilling to try it, then it's pretty much intellectually dishonest on their part.
Of course, there are obvious exceptions to the rule. Murder isn't something that should be tried or liked, for instance.