Well said, it gets really scary/sad when people do this over real life History/politics as well.
Personally I can sympathise with the Stormcloaks fighting for their god and beliefs, but I can also sympathise with the Emperor for having to sign the White Gold concordate - the major cause of the civil war, if the people of the Empire were exhausted from the great war and not willing to fight on I'm not sure what else could he do? I've seen Titus Mede called a coward often in these discussions, a man who led a fight back from the brink of destruction to a point where the enemy had to discuss a peace treaty rather than demand unconditional surrender from a total victory following a surprise attack.