First time doin' Dragonborn, I take the ship to Solstheim and go to that first mysterious structure with the people droning about it. Click it and go trippy for a bit then talk to that Archmage fellah afterwords. I didn't ask him about Miraak, walked around more, asked other folks about him, went exploring and found the Temple and the quest it gives ended. I walk around the temple, try to interact with folks, go to the middle and even clicked the stone. Figured nothin' was gonna happen and left. Later looked it up and found out some Frea lady was supposed to talk to me. Go back and try again, she never shows and I run around the area looking for her, even find her village and shes not in there. Any ideas?

I think it may have been the mod Interesting NPC's causing the problem, restarted a new character and found Arianna (at the forge in Whiterun) in a cave just standing there doin' nothing, and thus wasn't appearing in Whiterun. No matter what I do Frea won't show up on my other save even with the mod turned off. But I think I could just press on with this new character. He hasn't started any Dragonborn before I did the mod.

Due to the discovery I decided to try and use Prid xx017A0D But the game couln't even find her to move to me. I tried placing her at me and that didn't work as well.

Final Update: I give up. The game tells me her RefID doesn't exist nor does her BaseID, so I verify the integrity of the game cache a few times. Still nothin'. I don't have the will/patience to roll up another character to see if it works so I'm done.

That's because you're entering her FormID wrong.

http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Form_ID

I had this problem too. You'll have to MoveTo Player her and also enter Enable.

I tried both of the commands using this reference ID xx017A0D and then for the placeatme command I used her correct BaseID xx017934, it still came up saying "Could not find" or some other nonsense.

Is the quest "The Temple of Miraak" actually active?

Check your load order,
The first two digits of form IDs found in plug-ins are given as xx, because they may vary depending on the number of active plug-ins and the load order of them.