What do you mean? Sitting next to someone playing it, or some coop/mmp/ or some "dead poets society" thing?
Try this for general discomfort:
http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1085332-official-tes-multiplayer-thread/
If you're suggesting MMORPG, then this thread will be locked. See the link above for proper discussion.
BTW, Chase, welcome to the forums! :wavey: