I try to keep my Fallout folder under control, and I usually reinstall it when a new version of FWE comes out just to flush out old mods I don't really use. FOMM makes complete reinstalls easy enough that I can do it while browsing my favourite blogs or whatever.
The autosort works so well now that I hardly need to adjust load order either.
No idea what caused others to have trouble, but I know that the last couple days from a complete wipe to fresh install using FOMM on just about every mod, FOMM or FWE one ended up being the root of my problem, either FOMM did not install it right the first time, or FWE decided not to work the first time.
anyway, I too have only mods I am using and all new versions to avoid extra files or a messy install, and so far so good. But then again I am using auslogistics defrag, CCC cleaner and spybot on a almost daily basis, on my dual core X64 Vista.
On the flip side, I think a lot of my success with not crashing all the time (I used to) was my upgrade to 64 Vista from 32 XP and from 2 gigs of cheep ram to 8 Gigs of cosair, and from a Nvida 8800GS 384MB to a XFX 4870 1 gig.
I not trying to pick a fight though, so don't get me wrong, but auto sort always seems to like putting the ESM's way down low and the ESP files before the ESM files.
I'm not getting at anyone, I'm just genuinely curious. Perhaps people aren't maintaining their hardware and OS as well as they think?
well besides the above, maybe some people are just able to fun FO-3 then they start adding mods to it, or maybe they are not so tech savvy and have no idea what to do.
I used to follow readmes, but not unless its a old mod, its always the same
data/text/whatever
Data/mesh/whatever
If you have to install by hand, besides the body mods that offer more than one *style* its really simple, everything else is almost a FOMM install.
The only problem I ever had with FOMM, was with FWE 5.0, but after force installing it over its self last night (may have solved the other days problems as well if I had tried) it seems to be working fine. I looked at it because I was missing FWE pip boy icons so I started there and all my problems where solved.
I only have a AMD dual core, but I like you, run no fix and before the wipe and reinstall I could play for hours. only problem was if I changed from inside to outside a lot, and a small problem with CASM.