I'm thinking its a load order problem so I'll post it. If its not, I'll post a dxdiag. Please help.
*NOTE* my own mods are labeled as such and have a short description
Load Order, according to FOMM:
[X] Fallout3.esm
[X] Anchorage.esm
[X] ThePitt.esm
[X] BrokenSteel.esm
[X] PointLookout.esm
[X] Zeta.esm
[X] FallsChurchMetroFix.esm
[X] CRAFT.esm
[X] CALIBR.esm
[X] xCALIBR.esm
[X] 20th Century Weapons.esm
[X] FOOK2 - Main.esm
[X] FOOK2 - [[censored]] World And Neighbourhood Kit.esm
[X] FOOK2 - [DIK] DLC Improvement Kit.esm
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod.esm
[X] RH_IRONSIGHTS.esm
[X] Sniper Equipment - Remington M24 SWS - MASTER.esm
[X] S.P.L.A.T. - MASTER.esm
[X] SS Master File.esm
[X] SS Creature Compendium.esm
[X] Tau Ammo.esm
[X] TR4F2.esm
[X] Ahztek's M16 Pack.esm
[X] Millennium Falcon 2.0.esm
[X] CRAFT - Activation Perk.esp
[X] CALIBRxMerchant.esp
[X] DK_BulletTime.esp
[X] Sprint Mod.esp
[X] RH_IronSights_Basic_VanillaPlugin.esp
[X] RH_IronSights_Basic_PittPlugin.esp
[X] RH_IronSights_Basic_PointLookoutPlugin.esp
[X] 1Animated Nightvision goggles.esp
[ ] LurkTank.esp
[X] Classic Fallout Weapons BETA.esp
[X] Mannequin.esp
[X] SShop.esp
[X] PersonalVertibird.esp
[X] FOOK2 - Main.esp
[X] FOOK2 - [DIK] DLC Improvement Kit.esp
[X] FOOK2 - Mothership Zeta.esp
[X] FOOK2 - Main Level Up Fix 1.3.esp
[X] FOOK2 - DIK Level Up Fix 1.3.esp
[X] WeaponModKits.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - FOOK.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - OperationAnchorage.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - ThePitt.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - BrokenSteel.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - PointLookout.esp
[X] WeaponModKits - Zeta.esp
[X] Tactical Weapons by gRs Frederyck.esp
[X] xCALIBRmunitions.esp
[X] ZL-ACR.esp
[X] CS_ LightsaberQuest.esp
[X] CS_LightsaberQuest - Objectives Patch.esp
[X] ZL-MP5 Pack.esp
[X] Dragonskin Tactical Outfit.esp
[X] DragonskinBonusPack.esp
[X] AdvancedReconGear.esp
[X] RobCo Certified.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - DLC Anchorage.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - DLC The Pitt.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - DLC Broken Steel.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - DLC Point Lookout.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - DLC Zeta.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Corpse Flies.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Floaters.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Ghoul Raise.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Size Scaling.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Skeleton Decay.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - No Wanamingos.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - Hunting & Looting.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - Increased Spawns.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - Natural Selection.esp
[ ] Mart's Mutant Mod - Tougher Traders.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - Zones Respawn.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - FOOK2.esp
[X] Mart's Mutant Mod - FOOK2 - DIK.esp
[X] bltc.esp
[X] BLTC Less Addictions.esp
[X] 1PipboyPDA.esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Vendor).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Containers).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (NPC_Settler).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Vault 101).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (RivetCity).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Raider).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Slaver).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Chinese Ghoul).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (SuperMutant).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Talon_Regulator).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (Brotherhood_Outcast).esp
[X] 20th Century v5 ALIVE (TEST Container).esp
[ ] F3UmpaAnimation.esp
[ ] The Groovatron.esp
[X] xCALIBR_override.esp
[X] ClawCompanion.esp
[X] SS Weapon Effects.esp
[X] SS Enhanced Combat Maneuvers.esp
[X] CreaturePoses.esp
[X] Weak-EasyShield.esp
[X] FOOK2 - RH_IronSights.esp
[X] WeightedCompanionCube.esp
[X] Weighted Storage CubeV2.esp
[X] xm8loot.esp >>>>>mine adds XM8s to the FOOK leveled lists
[X] Spartan Armor.esp
[X] WMK-RH IronSights.esp
[X] 20thCWItemPlacement2.esp
[X] complete 20th century iornsights compatability.esp
[X] megatonhouse.esp >>>>>mine puts my items in the megaton house
[X] steelarmor.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] supersniper.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] armor.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] 20mmcannon.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] followers.esp >>>>>mine sets megaton water guy to respawn
[X] decimator.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] test.esp >>>>>mine test mod
[X] brokensteelgun.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] pittgun.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] armorancorage.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] highlevelcap.esp >>>>>mine
[X] ancharmor2.esp >>>>>mine god item
[X] anchgun.esp >>>>>mine god item
[ ] dbarmor.esp >>>>>mine test mod
[X] Sniper Equipment - Remington M24 SWS - v1.0.esp
[X] Monster_Costumes.esp
[X] JokeWeapInsideJoke.esp
[ ] Tau FireTeamv4.esp
[X] geoffTest.esp >>>>>mine havok super-volcano demo
[X] Rorshach.esp
[X] AAR525.esp
[X] 700NE rifle.esp
[X] Defender .600.esp
[X] i-rifle.esp
[X] g36mod.esp
[X] m16mod.esp
[X] FN SCAR.esp
[X] Barrett M468.esp
[X] LR300_Arpeggiator.esp
[X] H&K_M8_redlineC64.esp
[X] AS50 - CALIBR.esp
[X] Slam Desert Eagle.esp
[X] Slam MP5.esp
[X] Slam M4 Pack.esp
[X] Slam M16 Pack.esp
[X] Slam MK46_48.esp
[X] Slam Sniper Package.esp
[X] SniperPack by Cornflower.esp
[X] Mk48 MG.esp
[X] ModernWarfare.esp
[X] RPG-7.esp
[X] RD_Vault77Puppet.esp
[X] crowbar.esp
[X] Slam Snipe Change.esp >>>>>mine changes scope reticule for the SR-25
[X] sniperScopeChange.esp >>>>>mine changes sniper scopes
[X] AdvancedWeaponsRiddle.esp
[X] halo wepons.esp
[X] Strike Controller.esp
[X] Weak-EbonTek.esp
[X] VisionMod-Tom.esp
[X] fookReloadFix.esp >>>>>mine changes reload animation to better fit certain guns
[X] SniperAimCorrected.esp
[X] stash3.esp
[X] Sanctum.esp
[X] Sanctum-Storage.esp
[X] The Pelican.esp
[X] fawkesmask.esp
[X] FF_PortableLabInfirmary.esp
[X] FDA1x.esp
[X] BLTC No Overdosing.esp
[ ] WackAMoleRatForPeople.esp >>>>>mine
[ ] DanceDance.esp >>>>>mine used with umpa dance animations
[ ] scopeTest.esp >>>>>mine test mod not used
[X] DeathclawFriend.esp >>>>>mine makes the animal friend perk apply to deathclaws
[X] cheaperAmmo.esp >>>>>mine makes FOOK ammo cheaper
[ ] Tau Armor and Weapons And Vendor.esp
[ ] Shotgunners.esp.esp
[ ] Tau Armor and Weapons And Vendor - Zeta Addon.esp
[ ] Tau FireWarrior Chap - 1.esp
[X] GhostCombatHelm.esp
[X] SteinerCombatGear.esp
[X] HoverChair 0.4.2.esp
[X] Halo vehicle Pack.esp
[ ] pilotable vertibird BETA.esp
[X] decoy_can.esp
[X] HoverChair 0.4.2 - MK2.esp
[ ] CD HEV Suit.esp
[ ] M8Xuanlong.esp
[ ] PhysicsFury.esp
[X] FullAutoPistolsV20test.esp
[X] TR4F2_v5.esp
[ ] dogs meaty pack.esp >>>>mine not used
[ ] 50calAmmoLoot.esp >>>>mine not used
as for my own mods, they have never given me trouble before, so I don't think that they are to blame.