Yea I was in fear that people are just gunna post "good" games, not necessarily "good for new people" games, then I realized that some of the ones I posted to start weren't all that new user friendly so I just went with it

So far Fable has been the best suggestion I think....That one is easy to get into, easy controls, still has some semblance of a story....I always found that the fable games get quite boring after a while...but she might have a lengthier attention span than I have...I get bored pretty quickly if the story isn't pretty solid. (Except in the case of Harvest Moon, which I can play FOREVER )

Get Minecraft. You'll never have to buy another game again.

I had Deus Ex in mind for later down the track, since almost any FPS would probably be a bit of a leap for this girl. When she's got a bit more playtime up her sleeve from other genres -and bearing in mind that she'll have a more experienced player at her side- I think it'd be worth a go, if she likes stories. Torment... I have to admit that I have played only partway through it (quite some time ago, too), since I don't own it myself *preps for the rotten vegetables*.

Some of the games I suggested were intended for when they get to that genre (Wesnoth), some had Morili's presence in mind (Alien Swarm), and some could be thrown in at any point (Audiosurf, Dear Esther). In that context, I stand by my post. That which is given must balance with that which is received, as an imbalance causes discord.


EDIT: I completely forgot something very important when I posted earlier...
















.. Congratulations on JAHTMY!* And for healthy, non-creepy persistence :nod:. I hope it works out well for both of you .

*Just Asking Her To Marry You?

If she likes puzzle games, and you want to familiarize her with a controller; Portal on 360 or PS3 is the best way to go. It's not that intense, and it requires just the right amount of skills for a beginner.

I also want to say that when I read the thread title naughty things came to mind.

I was also thinking, the Fable games (again, from two onwards) have a lot of that real life simulation sort of stuff, like buying real estate and getting married, decorating your house, etc. Seeing as how you were considering the sims because you thought she might like this, it's worth a thought.

I didn't think I'd ever be recommending a Fable game...

Also, I forgot to say, congrats dude. If I understand correctly, you made a relationship thread here a while ago? And you're getting married now? So this like plus one for community discussion? Amidst all of the crushed hopes and bad advice given (choloform, anyone?), someone who made a relationship thread here actually succeeded! It's amazing!

I strongly doubt he used any advice that was given around here..

But we're still taking credit.

He probably told her a witty joke about strawberries. Chicks love that stuff.

Halo 3. all girls like halo 3 but do it after she gets used to shooters or games in general. i recommend co-op.

how about assassins creed?

Why not Halo: Reach? It's newer. :dance:

I'll probably be the only one to suggest it, but since it's on your list.

Recettear. It's entertaining, and when she wants to practice action, she can try the dungeons out.

First of all: Gratulations!

To the games:
Do NOT show her Morrowind at the beginning!
I've shown my gf games too, and MW is too slow for someone new to games who may don't know how to immerse into game worlds yet.
Oblivion is a bit better, but I wouldn't recommend it either. Its quite complicated after all with all those stats and a big world. Not for us trained gamers, but for a beginner.
I can recommend Sims, its easy and there are a lot of customization options.
The first game my gf played was Warcraft 3 and Guild Wars. Both are easy games.

If you want to train her for RPGs, I'd try Sacred 2 in coop. This is also an easy game with only a few stats and good for beginners.

EDIT:
Just read that: 'Recettear: An Item Shop's Tale' is also a good game for starters IMO.

Oooops! I forgot all about my thread...I was off modding Fallout: New Vegas lol. let me try to address everyone here:

@Game: I do have Minecraft, I think she might get bored because there is no story driving the gameplay, but I'll definitely show it to her!

@1samil: Thanks a bunch! It's been a rocky road but we're going strong now...excited for the wedding!

@Holy: Portal is a great suggestion! I'm gunna make a special note of that one, because portal 2 will be out before long and that'll be a release we can both look forward to!

@Everyone: Haha yes I did actually use some advice from here, regarding a different girl (And how I should just forget her) from last year...which I did, and then we started a relationship, so this one can totally go in the W column for BSGF!!

@Holy & Sash: I hate halo...not the game itself, more like the community....so maybe that one isn't so good. Assassin's Creed would be fun for me, but I'm not sure if she'd like it. I just talked to her about gaming and she suggested Mario, Duck Hunt, and Mrs. Pacman . I told her I don't have a nintendo...she asked if that was an essential part O.o....

@ Cec: Thanks for the extra recommendation for Recettear....that game looked interesting to me, so I'm sure we'll be trying it out sometime

@Walex: I've never played either of the first games very much, so I don't know a lot about them. Are they good for new players? Ones that perhaps don't know the keyboard layout well? The Sims is probably going to get some playtime, at least for her to try it out, because I've never met a girl who doesn't like those games Sacred 2 is an interesting suggestion. Co-op would be perfect, know any other co-op rpgs?

It seems to me that many women who aren't gamers take to RPGs easier because it lets them do what they want, and they are usually pretty easy to get into (well, it depends), especially if they're turn based (no pressure). First Person Shooters would probably be the worst choice, because most non-gamers can't aim for crap because their hands aren't used to the controls. Their aiming will be blocky, slow, and they won't be able to multi-task with the face buttons (jump and then shoot in the air) because they don't have anything dedicated to memory, whereas we do.

So, like I said, RPGs are a good choice. Final Fantasy would be a good choice. Ocarina of Time would also be another EXCELLENT choice. Try to give her the same beginning that many other gamers had. Perhaps she'll appreciate the nostalgia later on, and perhaps the depth and total awesome nature of a game like Ocarina of Time will allow her to realize that gaming may be far deeper than she imagined.

That's exactly what I was thinking Orz, Especially the part about turn based combat. (Unless you're fighting Seymour on Mt. Gagazett and you realize you're never going to win...and probably in the next turn he's going to destroy you...so you're just cycling through abilities looking desperately for a way out...then there is pressure ). I wish I had a N64 so I could play Ocarina...I've only heard great things about it, never had the chance to actually play it though

My girlfriend started playing Grand Theft Auto IV and then she played RDR now she's playing Fallout 3.

Congradulations on the engagement. As for the games, Halo is good to get her into. You both can play at home, or online. But if she doesn't like to get killed or fragged all the time, then it could discourage her even more.

I would stay away from Morrowind. In most cases the game is too slow for her, and it could deter more than it could enitce her. Oblivion seems to be made for her. Simple, fun and nice graphics.

I don't think Sins of a Solar Empire she will like. I would stay away from RTS and TBS games for now. Also don't forget to check out xbox live arcade. My wife loves Plants vs Zomibes. Let her try that out. One warning though,
you may not have a honeymoon if she becomes addicted to these games. :goodjob:

-World of goo
-Plants vs zombies, these are exceptionally fun and a good start.

Then...Oblivion is a good choice.

If you have a Wii you can purchase it for the Virtual Console.

Sims 2 is a very safe choice

Red dead redemption has several servers
hardcoe
normal
friendly

Choose friendly people cant shoot you all the time, just your horse...

(yeah AC2 and religion dont mix well, my mother called it blaphemy when I had it on v downstairs so yeah)

I suggest mirrors edge, it has great visuals, a unique gameplay, no gore, easy.

Fable games are easy too, but it depends if you want so easy its boring or not hard but fun. The second 2 have no death, and guns and magic are overpowered, gets old fast.

Try DAO or Mass effect. There is some gore, not too much. And the story is better than most other games.
Also try portal.

Just curious what is the minimum amount of gore ? Heavy rain from what I have seen, has a few bits, but an amazing story.
No ps3 nvm.
Congrats, have a nice wedding on er Friday 13th.

You never played Warcraft 3 (much)?
Its easy and fun, if you like strategy games.

I don't know if Guild Wars is still popular, its a special kind of MMORPG where you don't have to pay a monthly fee and you're only together with all the other people in cities. There you make up a team and go to the wilderness, where you're team is alone.
My gf loved it.

For my gf it was difficult to play 3D games, where you can move the camera with the mouse. So Action RPGs and strategy games with their isometric view aren't bad at the beginning.
The funny thing is she learned the controls of 3D games with the survival horror game Resident Evil 5. We played that in coop mode and now she loves the game . I never thought that would happen when I showed it to her.

Unfortunately I haven't played many action RPGs with coop mode. Just Diablo 2 and Sacred 2.
BTW: Games like Neverwinter Nights 2 (coop mode) were too difficult for my girlfriend.

At the moment we play C&C:Red Alert 3 in coop. Thats funny too, even if she likes fantasy games more.

PS: I've never played it, but I heard Civilization V also has a coop mode. Maybe I'll try that, but I don't know how complex and motivating the game is.

Im fairly religious myself; and I didn't have a problem with either AC1 or 2. :shrug:

I'm more then fairly religious, and AC2 is one of my favorite games currently. It's not like they were adding all that stuff for grittiness or anti religious sake. That's just how it was in Renaissance Italy :shrug:

FF Dissidia 12
FF 1,2,3,4
Portal
Batman Arkham Asylum
The FF games you have mentioned
Beyond good and evil
Halo 3

By the way do you want to get her interested or addicted?