I feel stupid now :facepalm:


Personally I would rather forget my poorly chosen username :sick:

Mine isn't that good either...ah the poor choices you make when you're 12(?)...oh well, I've come to embrace it

Yep, unfortunately I was slightly obsessed with New Vegas at the time

Yea, definetely go to the said social event, and 'go out' with her!

Thinking back on all those opportunities I missed thinking, 'I don't know her', or, 'I don't like her', I definitely recommend doing it anyway for the experience and high potential of it being a good time!

But make sure to try to have fun, or it won't be, =D.

Dont do it Johny! No, but seriously. Go ahead. My mom and dad dating when they were young like 18-19. They've been together ever since. My dads 40 now.
So yes do it! Can't hurt you.

Yeeaah........not so much :tongue:

Take the chance. At 14-15, experience is experience. And you need it to level up. Seriously, even disastrous dates help you grow in relationships.

Well, if you dont know her that well i'd suggest to get to know her and if you like her and she still likes you then, say yes.

As long as we don't let on that bottlecaps aren't accepted as currency here in Aus, that's not a big problem :shifty:.


Have a look at the http://www.vline.com.au/timetables/ for Victoria's intercity buses. I doubt little ol' Tassy is any better .

Its not too bad within cities such as Melbourne, but the svckage of public transport shoots up as soon as you leave the capital cities (as someone who grew up in a rural area, I know what I'm whining about).

Then you know how I feel when I look at my user name. :facepalm:

On Topic:What the hell OP? Is she ugly? No? Then do it!

How rude your teaching our young friend to be shallow.

Even if she is ugly, they can grow on you sometimes :hubbahubba:

Meh, today at school she acted like nothing happened so maybe the whole thing will blow over :shrug:

I will redirect your attention briefly.

You crushed her. On the inside. Nice going.

Was that when you talked to her, or will our palms be meeting our faces again?

So, go out with her? :shrug:

Or you could say what I'd say. "Great, of course! You can come to my D&D roleplay tonight. We need someone to play the scantily-clad Elven maiden in distress."

And didn't you have a crush on some girl that you were moving far away from or some such situation? Already over that one, too?

Edit: I notice you already told her you'd give her an answer in a few days. Sorry, bud, you blew it. She's not going to wait around for you, and you need to learn to jump on these opportunities, if you know what I'm sayin'. *nudge, nudge, wink, wink*. Seriously, a girl asks you out, you say, "hell yeah, let's go have fun!" I know your waiting around for that perfect someone, and all, but as David Wolf said, "Idealism is what precedes experience, cynicism is what follows." You'll learn in time.

I remember when I was fifteen. There was a girl in my class, let's call her Brianna, even though that was not her name. Brianna was a feisty one, a little hot-tempered, but very direct, very open, with a bit of a thing for guys that don't get the girls. You know, the chubby, the geeks, and so forth. Even though she was a fox. Oh yes, indeed. Brianna, oh Brianna, how I longed to go back in time and give you my phone number when you asked, which I hesitated to and decided not to, because I wasn't "sure" about you. How I longed to go back in time, and experience my hands exploring every supple inch of your perfectly sculpted b-...ahem. Brianna never asked me again, and soon found herself another man, who was apparently much wiser than me.

The point is, you can't turn down a girl because you don't have feelings for her. Love and affection for someone is something that you develop after spending a lot of time with them, after becoming close friends, and finding trust in one another, and sharing experiences. When I met my fiancee, I was just picking her up and bringing her to the supermarket as a favor for a friend of mine. I had no feelings for her whatsoever, of course, I hardly knew her. Yet, we ended up meeting again, later on that night. Over time we became good friends. And then, well ...you know where things went after that.

You'll learn in time. For now, take advantage of these opportunities when they come, because they will be few and far between, and good, or bad, they will be worthwhile experiences, and you never know where they'll lead.

Just a disclaimer:
I am NOT nor will I EVER be over the girl in my other threads

I regret my name, I have no imagination, looked at NV realised I used ratslayer all the time.

I wish I had an imagination.

Yes you will be, you're just too young to realize it already.

That's not healthy :ermm:

Well........

So wait, you said you'd give her an answer in a few days and you're surprised she's ignoring you at school? There are not enough facepalm-smilies in the world for this. You already turned her down without even meaning to. She's probably pissed and/or embarrassed.

For future reference, "I'll give you an answer in a few days" DOES NOT WORK. Even if you HAVE to say you'll think about it and go home and ponder for a bit (or make a thread about it here...), you'd better have an answer for her by the next time you see her. Preferrably sooner. Keeping someone hanging like that is not the way to do it.

dike move, Spectralproductions, such a dike move.

And that too. But replace 'probably' with 'almost certainly'. Better to just say no right away than ignoring her for days, she'd be right to be pissed off.

But come on guys, can you really say this girl was worth his time if she wasn't willing to give him a few days to ask people online for help in deciding if she was worth his time?

(^sarcasm^)