Highly unlikely. It's possible, but it requires holing yourself up inside an emotional cage, which is what you've done by rejecting this girl. The good thing is, at your age, hormones won't let you do that for long.

If you haven't already blown it, tell her yes. Say you were just shy. Unless of course she's ugly. You're too young to drink until she's pretty.

I see two possible solutions from now on:

1. As the poster above stated, say you were only unsure because of your shyness. Especially because she's a bit older and looks more mature. Which shouldn't be bad, but you just didn't know what to do or say out of amazement. Or simply you're not used to dealing with these things and you felt too much pressure to do the correct thing which is almost the same as the first reason. Or say just one of these things or a variant you think of yourself and get it right. Everyone does clumsy things when they're that young. This must be one of your first contacts of that nature with females. That's supposed to be NORMAL I guess. Just saying you're a shy person and you feel unsure should never hurt here. Or that you didn't know what to think of the situation because you barely know her and she didn't ask this in person, but sent a friend. This proves almost certainly that she's not that confident herself. Or she realizes well enough it's odd to ask out someone she doesn't know that well.

2. Tell her you now know for certain you'll be able to spend time with her. There were some situations you had to take care of first. Or an appointment or other arrangement to move to another moment/do. Make something up. Every teen has some situations, it may be at home or elsewhere. Like asking your parents whether it's okay you'll be away for that time.

Second round, go out and tell her NOW!!!


I don't know why I add this, but just keep this in mind when things don't go as planned, even if you don't foul up this time. :spotted owl:

Another dilemma:
Do you think she'll wait until Tuesday
Because:
Friday: day off
Weekend
Monday: student free day

GOD NO, nor should you.
That's so clear it's not even a dilemma. :tongue:
Oh, wait, Tasmania, it's already Friday where you live? It's only noon here, oops.
Hmm, in that case try to reach her or her friend if you know a method how to, otherwise it'll be awfully long. When does this social event take place?
Anyway, the sooner, the better. Your case may be dead by next week.
Godspeed, son.

I reckon go for it. Agree to one date anyway and see how it goes. You have nothing to lose. You might really click with her.

Yeah you will, you're 14 haha, I can barely even remember my crushes from jr high.

Call this girl up though, you can't get the princess without slaying a few dragons first (get dating experience so when the right girl comes around you dont blow it)

Redeem yourself in the eyes of the forum, *rolls-face-on-keyboard*Productions.. Go out with this girl. You know you want to...

I'm tired of reading about waiting for this girl, I want some action :hubbahubba:

Come on blahblahblahproductions, we're never going to be able to attend your wedding if you don't start asking some ladies out right now.

That's wrong on so many levels. :rofl:

Just that smiley is wrong on many levels

:hubbahubba: :hubbahubba: :hubbahubba: :hubbahubba:

A girl once asked me out 20 years on, I which I had said no :whistling:

Like that guy who wanted to fly to Britain and marry Emma Watson and was trying to get us to come up with some hair brained scheme that would grant him success.

It was for the better. If you need to say you need time to think about it and go to a video game forum for advice on what to do...maybe just continue doing what your doing.


I still don't know why it's so hard to walk up to a girl you like and ask her out. She will probably still say yes if you do just have confidence boy.

Bah he is crazy, he should know it wont work becuase he has to fly here (UK) I would get to her sooner.

All I need are some night vision goggles, a net gun and a hand glider to escape...



Did someone seriously make a thread about that ?

Yes.

And you're forgetting your chloroform.

Yeah, they really did.

So.......? What happened?

Since he hasn't responded in a while we can safely assume one of two things have occurred.

If things went negatively, the girl became extremely distressed and told older brother / ex-boyfriend / someone tough and I'm pretty sure that by the time they're done with him, Productions will no longer be able to produce anything ever again.

If however things went positively, he's doing something along the lines of 'producing' as we type. . .

He's 14. No producing for him for quite some time.

Save it for the night of the wedding, Spectralproductions!

Doubt there would be one if when the woman finally proposes to him out of desperation, he does something dumb..

Girl: "Okay, we've been dating for 18 years now, spectry-wectry.. Since you haven't asked, I'll do it. Will you marry me?"

Spectral: "Give me another year or so to think it over, I'm still in love with this chick I met in junior-high."

Girl: :facepalm:

:P

Calm down Productions, I'm just pulling your leg here..

Fixed.

:lol: :thumbsup:

You don't know what to say?

How about 'yes'?

You're gonna have a good time, so why turn it down?

Nah, she'll probably say she needs a few days to think it over [so she can go consult with friends, and "play hard to get"]. Therefore its completely pointless for anyone to ever ask anyone else out, since its doomed to failure, as your parents can no doubt attest.


Can't forget your charm :shakehead:. I mean, how could you possibly succeed without the charisma buffs of inanimate objects?

just dont fall on her :thumbsup: