Baaaaad reasoning there!

Doing something date-ish with a woman once does not make her your girlfriend or commit you to anything. However, dismissing the her because she's not 'special' loses you the possible opportunity find out that she does, in fact, meet you requirements :facepalm:.

EDIT: If you say no based on a stupid reason like that, I will personally come down there and smack you across the back of the head.

How do you know she isn't someone special if you don't know her that well? I'd say go out with her at least once, and be nice about it if you don't like her. I didn't know either of my ex's before I went out with them, and they were both great girls.

In a way yes. What if it goes through with this "special" girl? You'd be heartbroken Then I'd go crazy because NOBODY hurts 53(other random numbers and letters)productions!

I've looked into the future and observed two different parallel universes, both reflecting the choices you could make in this circumstance:

A. 5c3j9r7productions turned down That Girl and on the night of The Social Event, 5c3j9r7productions stayed at home playing videogames.

B. On the night of The Social Event, 5c3j9r7productions went with That Girl, and the events that transpired, no matter if 5c3j9r7 enjoyed them or not, were much more memorable than staying at home playing videogames.

... Well I don't know about you OP but I think B is the right choice. Just ask her o- I mean just take her out.

Dude, no, just go for it, she isn't your first one yet because you'll be joining her for whatever event. Nothing bad will happen by saying yes to her. Really, you can't imagine what a mistake that'd be. It'd be either way better than not knowing how she would've been.

If that doesn't do.

"I DON'T CARE if them NVA have MGs, mortars, bazookas, snipers and booby traps. You WILL cross that bridge, soldier! That's an ORDER!"

But OP, the 15 or 16 year old girl is older than you. Don't you think its better if she's your age? I mean, sure, she may be mature and be HOT, but 16 dammit! Besides, what if she was one of those evil-usuper girls that gets a guys attention, then when she has him over, she kills him?

Wrong! How will you ever find out if someone is that 'special person' you want if you don't even go on a date with them? You need to relax, go with the flow and have some fun. So what if the girl who asked you out isn't The One? Put it down to experience. And put all these fluffy romantic notions to one side and sow your wild oats, man! You're too young to be looking for The One anyway. Most women I know aren't even looking for the type of guys who 'like to wait for that special person'. They want someone who is confident and who knows what they want. If you don't play the field a bit you won't really get to know what you want.

He's 15. She's likely 17.

If he's in ninth grade but is a year younger than usual, that makes him ~14.

I think we should post links to numeorus 'How do I ask her out/How do I know she likes me' threads and tell OP this is most likely his future unless he starts getting some dating experience points

Oh, is he? I thought he said he was 15 (not in this thread). Anyway, that's nitpicking and that doesn't change the tragedy of his final decision. As usual when he asks for advice. :pinch:
Too bad I'm not that young anymore, if I was like 19ish or younger I'd have said "if you don't want her, at least put her on a plane to the nearest airport from where I live."
I can't imagine he'll actually blow that chance and say no. :blink: Like the other bloke said: "If everyone was so lucky."

Or we could just get you to send him a... package from you fine country :hubbahubba:.

Someone needs to create the ultimate relationship flowchart guide.

Before your edit I thought you were referring to some other package that would need the note included "Please note: these are not balloons. Go get them, cowboy."

*gah*
Im confused

Don't be. Just do what we tell you to.

It's quite simple really. Just go see her and say that's a great idea, thank her for inviting you and agree on how to meet. Go, enjoy and don't inflict any unnecessary pressure on yourself.

Yes. If only because of this:


Even if this date turns out to svck, at least you'll get some experience so you won't do something incredibly stupid and blow your chances when you do meet someone special.

Meh, from what I've read, if you're debating and procrastinating giving her an answer, there's something inside you that doesn't really want to date this girl, perhaps because you don't know her. If it were meant to be you would have said, sure, and not had to think about it.. maybe you're the kind of guy who'd like to know someone a bit better first.
Not gonna agree with everyone and say you *have* to get "dating experience", jeez guys, life isn't school and relationships aren't your finals. Some people do it, some don't, but it's not a written law. If you say you want to decline this time and wait for that special someone then go for it. You might change your mind in later years anyway. Just go with your gut. There are actually some relationships out there that developed from a friends-first basis and not from asking someone to date them.

You barely know her yet, how can you know she's not 'special'? Don't waste this opportunity, she could be a great girl. It's silly to turn down everyone who is not 'special' enough for you because you didn't get to know her yet. Go for it! :thumbsup:

:facepalm:

Why man why. You should try it, you might like it.

lol

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/0/0e/Forever_Alone.png.

http://i54.tinypic.com/2exv908.jpg

From now on, please refer to the above diagram (or my sig) for all your dating advice.

Oh, I get it. You're into men.





:laugh:

Go for it, it's rare that a girl will actually want to go out with you and you know about it. So may as well take this chance to learn some life lessons. Even if she does look like a horses backside. I had a girl give me a number once, I didn't know her but I didn't call her in enough time apparently and she found someone else (this was back in HS). I don't really regret it, but who knows what kind of life I could have now, had I called her sooner.

So yeah go for it. Don't be afraid, be a teenage man.