A girl asked me out today

Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 1:48 pm

Just go out with her, you don't have to know someone well to go on a date because that's what a date is for. I guess everyone is different, but I would rather get straight into dating over taking it slow (just because of bad experiences).

If I've learned anything about life in the past few years, it's that you'll never suffer for trying something. Every time I look back to when I got cold feet for an activity, but went anyways I ended up having a really great time. I either met a nice girl, made some cool new friends, got some contacts for job hunting, all that good stuff. By not going on a date THAT A GIRL ASKED YOU ON might I point out, you're losing some valuable life experience. I wish I would have started to date earlier than 17 because now most of my experiences of meeting people is through the bar rather than school. Point of all this is that it's rare a girl will straight up show she likes you a lot, so capitalize on it!
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Elizabeth Davis
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 2:56 pm

yeah, do the movie thing. I started dating at 16 and there is not much to it at that age. Movie theaters, bowling alleys, and pool halls will become your best friends. After a couple months I have a story to tell you involving some birds and some bees. :hubbahubba:
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 4:31 am

lol

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/0/0e/Forever_Alone.png.

-_-

Stop taking pictures of me damn it.
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Steven Nicholson
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:05 am

Say yes. At the very least what, it doesn't work out. Pfft big deal.
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 5:30 am

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You're awesome. :lmao:
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 7:30 am

http://i54.tinypic.com/2exv908.jpg

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:rofl:
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 12:30 pm

http://i54.tinypic.com/2exv908.jpg

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Words of wisdom right there. :clap: Well done


To OP: GO OUT WITH HER YOU FOOL!!

If you don't like her then so what? It's not like you're getting married (remember to invite us to the wedding :hubbahubba: )
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Patrick Gordon
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:45 am

Use her then loos----

Nevermind. The overly-hostile women here will destroy me if I continue with that. But seriously, you're putting [censored] up on the pedestal by not going out with her. I don't understand it either, but I just watched 40 Year Old Virgin.

But seriously, if you want to have a serious relationship some day, getting experience with others is a good idea. In the relationship aspect and other things that I'll tell you about on your wedding day....
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 4:38 am

I was extremely picky about getting into a relationship all through teenagerdom 'cause I either didn't feel ready or I was too lazy to get into a full-blown relationship with someone I didn't even like. I also found going on dates to be awkward, so I never did that either. Got into my first and only relationship two years ago at age 18 after extensive hangouts that weren't awkward with someone of a similar past and everyone knows how that is ending up (the answer is very well, if you don't know). It doesn't work for everyone, but if you really don't want to go through the trouble, don't. If you're afraid to regret it, go on a date with her.

You're only thirteen or fourteen; the kids I know who had dating experience that early (or earlier, like age eleven or ten) are either pregnant, with kids up to age five (I'm twenty), or having excessive amounts of casual six, or paying child support. Holding hands and hugging get really old really quickly if you have experience that early. Nearly everyone will disagree, but I know what I've seen.

EDIT: There's nothing wrong with dating at 16-17. I just waited longer. And I know It's regionalized. Not everyone who starts early is like that. Just a grand majority of my former friends. I know many, many people turn out fine.
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 3:42 pm

Or we could just get you to send him a... package from you fine country :hubbahubba:.

From what I've gathered he's such a picky bastard we'll probably have to PAY HIM, too to uhh, you know.
If we're talking about relationships, I started dating 'for realz' a year ago when I was 17. Relationships are hard. For me the learning curve is kinda steep :D But maybe I'm just looking at it all the wrong way
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:07 am

You're only thirteen or fourteen; the kids I know who had dating experience that early (or earlier, like age eleven or ten) are either pregnant, with kids up to age five (I'm twenty), or having excessive amounts of casual six, or paying child support. Holding hands and hugging get really old really quickly if you have experience that early. Nearly everyone will disagree, but I know what I've seen.


I've never seen that, but I think it has more to do with culture than age. And to also point out that I see nothing wrong with casual six, which is probably also because of cultural influences.
Almost everyone I know started "dating" around 14, but most didn't have six untill 16-18. And those who did have six before that never really had much six after that one or two times. Around 16-17 the notion of casual six was pretty common though.

I know one girl who got pregnant at 18 who I went with from 1st-6th grade. But that was in the Philipines after living there for 2 years.

Disclaimer; not arguing, just responding. :P Nothing personal to you IHAFD but I kno how esily forum posts gets missunderstood for something they're not.
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 3:23 pm

Have fun.
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:16 am

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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 6:33 am

If she's hot, just say yes. What's so hard about it? It's like a dream come true!
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 5:28 pm

If she's hot, just say yes. What's so hard about it? It's like a dream come true!

:clap: well that's easy to remember :tongue:
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 1:45 am

Aye, getting between towns is a problem (I was going to mention that, but, obviously, I didn't), but that is true of all Australian states :shrug:. What I had in mind was getting places within towns.

What, you don't have buses and trains? :rolleyes:
I mean, where I live we got http://www.busstidningen.se/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Skane.jpg, http://www.kulturen.com/01_besok_oss/01_BILDER/bild_384_buss.jpg, https://www.skanetrafiken.se/upload/Bildbank/P%C3%A5gat%C3%A5g/Nya%20P%C3%A5gat%C3%A5g%202009/KDx61_26664-L.jpg, http://www.tellerup.se/jarnvag/bild/A075.jpg and http://www.oresunddirekt.dk/~/media/trianglen%20001.ashx?as=0&dmc=0&h=306&mw=459&thn=0&w=459 :P There's gotta be something of that on tasmania :toughninja:
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 8:58 am

Lucky...
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Johnny
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 1:31 pm

Lucky...


:laugh: indeed

Make your friends envy you :P

P.S: To Sneakmaster: you sir are correct :)
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Romy Welsch
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 2:56 pm

Lucky...



Looks like we're in the same boat :cryvaultboy:
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Pat RiMsey
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 4:20 am

Looks like we're in the same boat :cryvaultboy:


Actually he was calling you :)
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 2:29 pm

A girl asked you out, and you are wondering what to do? [censored] date her already! I'LL STRANGLE YOU IF YOU DON'T!
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Rude Gurl
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 3:15 am

I'LL STRANGLE YOU IF YOU DON'T!

Reminds me of girl i ones knew <_<
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Jack Moves
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 3:25 am

Reminds me of girl i ones knew <_<

Got her number? She sounds fun.
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 6:11 am

Actually he was calling you :)



Huh? :eek:
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Steve Smith
 
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Post » Sun Feb 06, 2011 11:00 am

Huh? :eek:


Check your own username and then back at what he said...it was a bad joke :P

Anyway OP have you decided what to do?
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