FOREVER ALONE

He's nuts.

On of the (many) minimum requirements to run the "Holy Assassin: As a Boyfriend DLC" pack is;

Must be a gamer girl.

I need to have a girl who can atleast appreciate a good game, if not play it..

I don't impose my own hobbies on my girlfriend, she doesn't impose hers on me. I've found it works pretty well.

Nope, I lack the motivation to leave my mom's basemant.

Yeah, that's a good policy and I totally agree with you on that one. But you don't always have to impose a hobby on someone to have them pick up on it anyway, especially if you spend a lot of time with them. It's just really nice to share common interests with someone you love.

Compromise is something I can work with. I may demand a gamer girl, but that doesn't mean I won't do my part in the bargain.

My last girlfriend wanted us to watch "Vampire Diaries" together.. I hated it at first, but then sorta warmed up to it for her.. She was worth it. I didn't mind taking her to movies like Twilight or whatever, because in return she didn't mind going to watch Saw 7.

Presently, I am having only one girlfriend.

Only? Do you usually harbor others?

Hypothetical situation: You find a girl who doesn't play any games. She is perfect in every other way. What do you do?

Very tough one.

I'd make friends with her, and introduce to games. If she likes it, then I've found my perfect woman. If she doesn't, we might not be as close as I might like (I actually have only ever been in relationships with girls who atleast mildly enjoy games of some form). But if she is indeed perfect in every other way, I won't give her up just for video games. It's not like she'd ban me from them, I'd still play, just not be able to discuss them with her.

It's not like my life completely revolves around games, it's just a big factor of it, so I would like to share it with my significant other..

Never have never will. Don't get me wrong, I love love. I think it's a sweet, warm, fuzzy, and sometimes maybe beautiful thing and I enjoy seeing it, reading about it, hearing about it, and singing about it. But it's just not for me.

Besides that I'm in the Navy. Not a good profession for starting or maintaining relationships.

So bad-ass..

So, you agree that the "must be a gamer" approach is a rather naive one to take?

I know it's not directed to me but I would definatly stick with her. Games aren't something that you're going to keep playing forever, but with someone who's perfect you can have a much better life. You are allowed to have lives outside of the relationship too.

Anyways I'm kinda confused as to why there's so much hate coming from both sides. If you are in a relationship good for you, but not everyone has found the right person or is ready for one. For someone like me who's only been in a few which ended badly, I'm not really looking for one right now, but if the right person comes I will go for it, but I've raised my standards a bit (personality wise, not looks). I'm having fun being a barstar right now though so I don't really see that happening in the near future. Anyways, no point in grilling the single people, especially over an online forum because you don't know whats going on in their life.

For the single people, don't act all high and mighty and that they are a waste of time. Especially to whoever said they're prolonged prostitution, you've obviously never been in a relationship, because thats nothing at all what they are like. I understand everyone's got [censored] going on in their life but why oppose the idea of one, especially if you've never experienced one before.

Ofcourse, I was only being silly. Im not going to determine my relationships solely based on things like that.. How immature do you think I am?

Not sure if sarcastic. :cheat:

100% serious. The guy who wants love, but won't have any of it because his duty would interfere with it. Plus, you're in the Navy. You're a hero, dude. A real one. :goodjob:

Unless you're the cook or something.

Nah, Im kidding, the cook has a pretty important role to fill too.

You're really right. I'm about two weeks out of a long-term relationship that didn't end well for me (and about half of it wasn't very good going either), yet I miss my ex so much it doesn't even make sense. I've had almost solely crummy relationships, but I still go for it whenever something promising comes along, because if it works out it's just the best thing in the world. ^_^ For as long as it lasts, anyway...

You really want to know my default opinion of people on the internet?

I doubt it's a very high one. I'd rather not know the details. :whistling:

Man I'm sorry to hear about that, I hope you can find the right person. I don't think there's anything wrong with going for something promising as it comes, because if we didn't we would just be wasting our life! It's a huge cliche but you never know unless you try I didn't mean that there's anything wrong with trying, I just meant that you gotta live your life however is best for you.

Never had a girl friend and probably won't have a girl friend any time soon given my history of social abilitys (or lack thereof).

I have none. I don't have the money, time, motivation, or the care of the world to have something like having a boy/girlfriend in my lifetime.

Wasn't there one of these polls a few months back that had over half the forum hooked up with a significant other? What happened guys? We cannot be another stereotypical lonely gamers clutching our consoles and computers to keep us warm at night forum.

I was going to vote in the poll...but there doesn't seem to be an "other" option


what's up with that?