» Wed Jul 13, 2011 4:29 pm
Children know a lot more then their parents think, remember when we were(or still are) kids?
Bad language in games/movies(if not overly used just for the [censored] of it) isn't something to shield a kid from, such as from the 5th grade up. They usually know all the major swears, maybe not what they mean though. If a game is somethig you wouldn't mind them playing, except for some mild swearing, then let them play. If you've raised them right they won't be swearing around advlts, and probably are already swearing around friends. It's all about image anyways, and they understand that to an extent. Now if you have a child who acts out etc, then you probably want to limit exposure to stuff like that. If they can't grasp when/where it's "right" to use foul language, then they shouldn't be allowed to even own a game(discipline).
As to sixual content, same thing applies I think. I saw my first playboy in 2nd grade at my private catholic school. Welcome to the age of internets, now kids can see worse things then playboy so long as the can spell six. If you are present, or in an ear shot, then when they play a game with sixual content they won't be so excited to see it, and more embarrassed. Because again, kids understand whats excepted and isn't, for them.
Kids live in a bubble, and don't fully understand all "mature" content, but they know about it from a young age. I remember being young and thought that gays and lisbians were actually something that just started happening in my lifetime. No one talked about it, beyond friends calling eachother gay etc. Growing up more, and starting to grasp all these things I began to realize that gays and lisbians actually weren't some new thing, and I was just a kid who lived in a bubble, along with the rest of them.
So my point, if I have one, is that kids are exposed to very mature things, just as I'm sure we all were. It just happens differently now, and probably a bit faster. As a parent I teach my son that some words are bad to say, but I know he's going to anyways. Just not around advlts, or those he perceives as authority figures. You can't protect your kid by turning off content. Either decide, is your child ready for the responsibility to play the game of life(knows how to act in "proper" in public and act a fool with friends) or is your child going to actually kill someone and have six(because they are emotionally unstable and not mature enough for their age) because they played a game with dragons etc, which is clearly fantasy.