Essentially, at this point, Bethesda has earned my trust. They did this when, after Morrowind was fairly buggy on Xbox and the GOTY Edition improved on that, they moved to an entirely new platform and still managed to improve on and polish the sequel to it in almost every way (by my standards at least; with the possible exception of grittiness and historicity in my opinion.) Since that time, they have never let me down. Not with any of Oblivion's expansions, and not with Fallout 3 or any of its DLC.
Therefore, I too have decided not to scour the net for every scrap of info that comes to light this time around. I want the game to be as fresh and surprising to me as possible this time. I have confidence that whatever they do with it, even if I disagree with certain design points potentially (they can't please everyone in every single respect, and I might be one of those people,) I'll still end up with a huge, immersive game with a ton of content no matter what, which is all I ultimately care about. And it's TES, so at this point, the lore and universe alone is enough to svck me in. I want to return to the world I love and see what kind of shape it's in now, in a province I haven't ever seen. New gameplay mechanics and AI impressiveness etc. are just gravy to me at this point. They had at with Morrowind frankly lol.
That said, I'm not ready to "go dark" QUITE yet. I'm not reading everything that comes out, and I am ACTIVELY AVOIDING plot, setting (towns, etc.) and character (skills, races, etc.) spoilers, but I am going to at least check periodically for gameplay footage. Once the first gameplay video appears and I see the draw distance and the visuals, that's going to be it for me. From that point forward, I'm not going to read or watch a thing. Instead I'll focus on the lore and anticipate what twists and turns in it we can expect this time around. That will be my anticipation this time, instead of the hype and previews.
The only exception will be if they release more of the music, because so far I have loved it and simply really enjoy listening to it as music on its own, regardless of the game.