You have to work around Oblivion's NPCs. They're great when travelling across countryside (at lower levels anyways) but in dungeons they're horrible because they always run off into combat. To get around this, though, I got in the habit of telling them to "wait" at the initial room of any dungeon. Now Dyan would go off and explore on her own. If she ever encountered anybody who's too strong for her (hardly ever) she could run back to where the brothers were, who would now come to her aid without getting lost or getting knocked unconscious every 20 seconds.
I dunno. I liked it. :shrug:
Yes, I also did the "wait thing," and agree it was better than nothing. But, as a point of comparison, Lydia is sworn to protect my character (and all that he owns) as his body guard "housecurl" with her life. She is vigilently and transparently at his side. At one point in the college of winterhold, new students were in the rotunda to practice and demonstrate some of their spells on each other. As my turn approached, I just happened to glance over and remembered that Lydia was in the background with a serious scowl and her battle axe drawn. Anything that I attacked, or that attacked me was going to get eliminated. I had to back out, and take Lydia upstairs to my room in the dorm. I pointed to the bed, and commanded her to take a nap. She curled her cute self up and got some rest, so I could go downstairs and continue my training without killing everyone in the rotunda. Now, that is a serious turn from simply asking her to "wait," due to ineptness. As a thane, she is sworn to my character's service with her life, but it seems impossible to get the marriage options in her dialog. She is so awesome, she has stolen his heart. Others in the Skyrim forum have suggested marrying one of the other beauties, and Lydia will still be at your side, even in your home with you and your wife. The cake and ice-cream scenario. My character only wants cake/Lydia. He does not want ice-cream. With all of his status as thane and women throwing themselves at him, he cannot romance the woman he loves who is constantly at his side and has his back. The loneliness my characters felt in Oblivion is certainly not a factor in Skyrim, and it is implemented in a very awesome manner.
1. The UI in Skyrim svcks. I am willing to work around it, as long as Bethesda patches it so that it does not glitch/freeze. Merely inconvenient while exploring, but game breaking when fighting for your life.
2. Removal of spellmaking is not appreciated. I am sure that they expected the skill trees/perks, enchanted gear and new shouts to provide sufficient avenues for customization. It doesnt. My mages dont like store bought (tome learned) spells.
Custom spellmaking allows you to personalize your characters and make them unique. It is sorely missed.
Other than that, Skyrim has been awesome for me thus far. Yes, different from Oblivion's atmosphere (which is awesome and I love), but consistent with Tamriel. It flows., This is what I would expect on the other side of the snowy Jerails, migrating from Cyrodil. Now, you dont have to turn back, and "can go that way." Arcadian, I admire your discipline with video games, but this is one that I made an exception. Your precious wood elf will love Skyrim eventually. It is inevitable.