Agreed. Is it more realistic to see blood shooting out of your arm if someone hits it with a battleaxe? Yes, but I don't need to see realistic in that sense of the term. How about challenging quests or puzzles to figure out? You know... stuff that actually requires thought? The moment TES becomes a combat to combat game is the moment I stop playing TES. You want excessive gore... mod it in.
Its all good & well saying mod it in.....what about console users?
Consoles have added massively to sales of morrowind,oblivion & fallout ( fact )...why should console users get the [censored] end of a stick?
Gore could be an option you turn on and off.....or have no gore,low gore,medium gore,or high gore...at least give people an option.
I dont want high rates of gore,but it could be done tastefully...& that includes head chopping etc,its more immersive in my opinion.
Your talking about swords ,arrows & destructive spells, not a tickling stick.
Just my view