Sometimes they haven't actually "disappeared" but rather clipped through whatever object I placed them on and end up on the ground. This can be equally annoying because I then have to deconstruct/move around parts of my settlement just to retrieve said object.
In other cases objects have simply vanished into thin air, never to be seen again. It wouldn't be such a big deal if it weren't for the fact that hand placing items can be a tedious and frustrating process. It's very annoying to come back to your base only to find out that the item you spent 10 minutes positioning to get the look you want has mysteriously vanished into oblivion.