Happily Married on In a Relationship that balances you?

Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 9:40 am

I have been married for 6 years, we have been together for 9, we have two beautiful girls, age 6 and 4.

I never thought I would ever be able to settle down with one woman... I was a very happy single person that enjoyed all the perks of being single, but I met her and something, what that something is who knows, but something was different. She is the complete opposite of me in so many ways, so I guess we must balance each other by being so different. She is very outgoing and social and I am very introverted and she tells me I am anti-social.

We argue, not a lot, but what couple does not. The key to making any relationship work is... being each others best friend, one you can trust more than any other, if you don't have that then it will not last.
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Kate Schofield
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 5:33 pm

Where is "not happy being alone"? :hehe:


x100.
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chirsty aggas
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 7:06 pm

Happy alone. Psychiatrists say I shouldn't live alone. Ruh-roh.
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No Name
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 5:29 am

Happily single. No need for a girl in highschool anyway but everyone is loving to one another.
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Tiffany Castillo
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:30 am

I'm perfectly happy being alone right now. :)
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Karine laverre
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 8:58 am

Never had a GF and honestly I dont care. I find someone I like (unlikely) yay. I dont *shrugs* lots of people these days seem to make a big deal out of being single. Atleast here. So happily alone.
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Kortniie Dumont
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 9:21 am

Married, 20 years together, kids will be grown and in college soon. I was not the marrying kind. I was happy on my own. I was happy with lovers.
I am happy being a mom.
We've endured terminally ill parents, ten seperate hospitilizations and extended disability leaves on his part, a father's stroke and some health issues on my part. Relationships are hard. No doubt about that.
We have both changed, such is life. You can't mature if things stay the same.
There's been more bad, to the point that I can't remember the good.
Everyday is a new day. There's always a bright spot, I keep saying.
I didn't vote.
I belive you have to manufacture your own happiness, no one can make it for you. Depending on another for happiness will have disasterous consequences.
On the flip side, a person can make you feel unbearably miserable.
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SaVino GοΜ
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 11:49 pm

Don't got nobody, don't want nobody. I like being alone.
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Liv Brown
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 8:30 pm

I'm not married, but I have been in a relationship for 4 years. No one believes we will make it just because we are teenagers. It gets old hearing the same old "you'll never make it". I can't wait to prove them wrong.
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Mélida Brunet
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:12 am

Married 11 years to someone who wasn't supposed to be the one. I'd already met the one and had lost him. I didn't want anyone else. Fortunately, my husband wouldn't take no for an answer.
We've had ups and downs, we've been through sickness, surgeries, deaths (not ours, thank goodness), ordeals with psycho friends, a broken tv during sports season. We love each other, we support each other, we are each others biggest fan.
I wouldn't change a thing :)
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Dewayne Quattlebaum
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:05 pm

Together for 25 years, married for ... uh ... 18, I think. Yes we're a couple that forgets/ignores anniversaries. :rofl:
We met when I was 17 and he was 19/20. The first ten years had a lot of rocky moments (mostly because of me, I suffer from depression) but it's been pretty smooth sailing since. We compliment each other nicely. The areas we're the same make us mesh well together and more importantly, even where we're different we understand those differences between each other and so there's little friction. Neither of us wanted kids so we have none.

There have been times I wonder what it would've been like if I'd stayed single longer...in a way I've never been alone...and I think when you start a relationship so young that's fairly natural...but it doesn't mean I regret anything. Life happened this way, it's been good, he's awesome/my hero, and as someone else said, I'm keeping him. :D
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Jaki Birch
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 5:37 pm

Hmm, well, I guess I'm with this girl and we're both really happy, but it just "started" last week, so it's still that "just got into it" feeling. I'll let y'all know how it is in the coming months.

I was happy being single for almost a year, but around Christmas, I started missing having that one person I could lean on. I guess she just came in at the right time haha.
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Chica Cheve
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 5:18 pm

Good stories in here.
I have friends my age that like being single.
Hope this new year brings us all joy.
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victoria johnstone
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 4:55 am

Happily with the girl of my dreams. Hopefully we can settle in together soon and start a family in the coming years.
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~Sylvia~
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:37 pm

I am single, but I don't know whether or not I count as I am not an advlt.
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Darian Ennels
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 3:34 am

Far too many happy people in this thread.

Single and not enjoying it.
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Avril Churchill
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:55 pm

I actually wish I was single again. The weekend rompy one night stands are miles better than a woman nagging you all the time. I don''t talk to you because your zilch interesting!

Maybe I should just call it quits. :P I hate hurting people though.
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Sandeep Khatkar
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 2:06 am

Far too many happy people in this thread.

Single and not enjoying it.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOJYUJo7Sw0
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Lucy
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:59 pm

I am single, but it's not as great as it once was. Will I find that someone? Balls no, not up here at least.
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Austin England
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 8:20 pm

We've known each other for 12 years, been together 10. Not officially married, but in our eyes, it's the same promess. Ever so happy, and yes it gets better and better as years go. I think we had two "friction moments" in our relationship. I'm the kind to pout when I disagree, he's the kind to burst his emotions. But as we are more mature, he hides a moment to cool down and then tell, and I say what bugs me in simple terms instead of holding it -- there's no point anyway. I can't even imagine starting over with someone else... just the road that it takes... no no. There is no timidity, no rounding the corners. We are exactly who we are with each other and that's something I will not let go of easily. It's mutual admiration and respect.
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Jade Muggeridge
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 5:40 pm

I DONT NEED TO NO WOMEN! I GOT THE INTERNET. OHH YEAHHH.. LOL :hubbahubba: :rofl:
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Cody Banks
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 10:47 pm

Happily married for 6 whole months now. Its still bliss. We have had our fights but we had them before and they never phased us, I will never divorce my wife as I made a promise, 'til death. Besides, it was meant to be. We had a two rainbows combine into one during our first dance.
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Pixie
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:29 pm

Marriage for me looks like one big ass headache. As do relationships as a whole. I would be happy being alone my whole life.
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Wayne Cole
 
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Post » Fri Apr 08, 2011 5:15 am

I am single and (trying to be) happy......
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james kite
 
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Post » Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:15 pm

Not married, but in a happy live-in relationship. Six years and still going strong.
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