Have you ever been in love? : Othor Games

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:28 pm

Probably not, no. But then, love is an ill-defined emotion, so maybe I have been, or currently am, and just don't realize that it's the ever elusive "love." If I haven't (which is much more likely then I have, since I've yet to be in a serious relationship, and I'm only in my early teens) then I guess I have something to look forward to.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 1:49 pm

I voted: Yes, but I was crushed later on

Twice. One ended yesterday, and now I feel like dying. Make it stop. MAKE IT STOP!

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 3:57 pm

Oh ok I can understand where you're coming from. Being led on is one of the absolute worst feelings in the world, I think its just one of those lessons that everyone learns. I think you can do better then that though, you seem like a pretty cool guy and I wish you the best of luck

For clinginess if thats you, then I would say just act normally, but at the beginning of the relationship just try to tone it down a little, I wish it worked that if you show how much you care they will care back, but humans are just funny that way.

Thanks, and yes this is what I was thinking too. I always believed in the overused golden rule of treating others the way you want to be treated and I wanted a loving gf ,so I was loving and caring but I think it was too much and not everyone lives by the golden rule now-a-days. Now I sound like my dad

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:31 pm

Well, m'boy, it can be. Stabs you in the heart and kicks you below the belt. But you enjoy every stinking minute of it.

Tis true, i love her, she crushed me and despite knowing she is with the wrong guy i still want happyness for her, im even enjoying being miserable so long as she is happy although being miserable isnt cool : (

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 3:09 pm

Well, who haven't?

One that's a pain in the ass is when you can't get that someone out of your head.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:12 am

I thought I was. Turns out the one I loved didn't really exist. She was someone entirely different than what I had percieved for a couple years. (not in a bad way, just different)

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:37 pm

Just a question for those who say they love someone who doesn't even know they exist... how can you truly love them? I definitely think you can get a sense from just looking at someone if you like them, but loving someone who you haven't talked or had anything physical (not necessarily six) with seems... odd.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:43 pm

Can I come to your wedding? :icecream:

Well duh, man. Everyone here is invited! Right?

Give him some more ice cream that'll do the trick :whisper:

haha well now... I guess I am going to have a bigger wedding then I thought I would haha. but I guess I could stream it online some how. then everybody will be able to come. I am not paying air fare for everybody!

But....BUT...you're 19.EDIT: G-ranger and IHAVEAFATDOG may not comment.

thats why I said I am going to wait until after college or closer to the end. I will be 22 when I want to be done with college.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:29 pm

Been in and out of love 3 times, and married and divorced all 3 of them. Apparently I'm a jerk magnet, so now, if someone finds themselves attracted to me, or I find I'm attracted to them, I run like Hell in the opposite direction. Because CLEARLY there is something majorly wrong with them that I won't find out about until I am thoroughly snagged. :unsure: Happens every time...

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:34 pm

What's next I wonder that we have in common?

Spoiler

We're both from Australia, don't like Gillard, watch Top Gear, Fallout, Elder Scrolls ~~and we both have a secrect liking to facehugger reproduction~~ THE LIST GOES ON!

Been in and out of love 3 times, and married and divorced all 3 of them. Apparently I'm a jerk magnet, so now, if someone finds themselves attracted to me, or I find I'm attracted to them, I run like Hell in the opposite direction. Because CLEARLY there is something majorly wrong with them that I won't find out about until I am thoroughly snagged. :unsure: Happens every time...

There's this dude called Lady Gaga. I heard he was top bloke.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 6:16 pm

I think I am still in it right now, because the feeling that I have for the girl I like is definitely more than just a crush. However, she leads me on a never ending cycle. We get close, I remind her how I feel, she becomes suddenly mean, I try to get over her, I begin to succeed in getting over her, she starts acting like she cares for me again, I fall hard for her again, we get close again, and the cycle repeats.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 5:15 pm

I think I am still in it right now, because the feeling that I have for the girl I like is definitely more than just a crush. However, she leads me on a never ending cycle. We get close, I remind her how I feel, she becomes suddenly mean, I try to get over her, I begin to succeed in getting over her, she starts acting like she cares for me again, I fall hard for her again, we get close again, and the cycle repeats.

dude I have seen girls do that to my friends before. I got so friggin angry at the girls who did that. It is totally screwed up. I'm sorry you are having to go through that.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 12:48 pm

No. I thought I was once, then I realized I was hungry.

I later learned that redheads are too spicy.

LOL

» Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:15 am

dude I have seen girls do that to my friends before. I got so friggin angry at the girls who did that. It is totally screwed up. I'm sorry you are having to go through that.

My friends all tell me I should just get over her and go out with some of the other girls who do like me. But she's just so ... well, perfect, really .... that I can never get over her enough to walk away.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 4:34 pm

I am in love, or at least I think I am. I think about her everyday so I guess thats love. But were not together, and I haven't seen her in almost a year.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:45 pm

My friends all tell me I should just get over her and go out with some of the other girls who do like me. But she's just so ... well, perfect, really .... that I can never get over her enough to walk away.

ya I would've said the same thing, but the girl I'm with has broken up with me a few times and vise versa in the past (a long time ago). It's easy to say that you will get over someone, but harder to actually do it. Sometimes you just simply can't get over someone.

» Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:25 am

I think I am still in it right now, because the feeling that I have for the girl I like is definitely more than just a crush. However, she leads me on a never ending cycle. We get close, I remind her how I feel, she becomes suddenly mean, I try to get over her, I begin to succeed in getting over her, she starts acting like she cares for me again, I fall hard for her again, we get close again, and the cycle repeats.

Same here. :glare:

» Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:14 am

ya I would've said the same thing, but the girl I'm with has broken up with me a few times and vise versa in the past (a long time ago). It's easy to say that you will get over someone, but harder to actually do it. Sometimes you just simply can't get over someone.

Exactly. That's what I tell them, but they don't understand. And it doesn't help that I'm the only single guy in my circle of friends because I'm waiting for her.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 6:31 pm

Once, the falling in love part was great but the crushing feeling afterwards when she didn't return the feelings packed a punch. I try not to dwell on it, I'm still young and theres plenty of other girls out there :turned:

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:54 am

I've been infatuated with someone. Love? probably not.

» Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:01 am

I know only hate.

The people here all sound like chapters from a self-help booklet!

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:33 pm

The people here all sound like chapters from a self-help booklet!

All the makings of another Penn & Teller BS episode.

» Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:06 am

I'm 17. I have much greater concerns in my life right now than finding love. I've had a couple of crushes but nothing beyond that, and it will probably stay that way for quite a while.

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:41 pm

There's this dude called Lady Gaga. I heard he was top bloke.

Hahahaha! Doh....

» Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:36 am

All the makings of another Penn & Teller BS episode.

I read that as "B5" and thouught once was enough.