I'm looking for some help in building my roleplaying load order. I have played Skyrim on and off since release on console, so I have a good idea what I want to change. I've also modded Oblivion and Morrowind so I'm pretty familiar with basically how mods work and using utilities like Wrye Bash, LOOT, TES5Edit, TES5LODgen, etc.
But I'm fairly new to Skyrim modding, and having spent many hours researching and googling, I have many questions that I hope some of you kind people here will be willing to help me answer.
So far, my load order consists of SKSE, ENBoost, all three official DLC, the USKP for all three DLC, SKYUI, iHUD, Less Intrusive HUD II and Character Creation Overhaul and Race Menu.
I also definitely want to add Warburg’s Paper Map, Frostfall, Kuertee’s Eat and Sleep, Community Uncapper, Convenient Horses, Even Better Quest Objectives, Moonpath to Elsweyr, and one of the two major spellmaking mods (Spell Crafting or Spellmaking in Skyrim).
I’d also probably like to add a few more magic mods, like Apocalypse, Empowered Magic Forgotten Magic Redone Immersive Spell and Lights, and/or Wintermyst.
I am stuck on which overhaul to use and whether to use an overhaul at all. In Oblivion, there is Maskar’s Oblivion Overhaul, which is universally configurable and compatible with any Oblivion mod ever made without the need of a compatibility patch. That’s what I am looking for in Skyrim, but it does not appear that any of the major Skyrim overhauls (Requiem, Skyre, Sperg, Perkus Maximus, SkyDie, have I missed any?) are as compatible as Maskar’s is for Oblivion.
After reading/watching a bunch of reviews, I think I would like Requiem the best, but Skyre looks good too and the most important thing to me is choosing an overhaul that will create the fewest conflicts. I have seen a lot of mods come with compatibility patches for Skyre, and I have now found a bunch of compatibility patches for Requiem. I have read some people saying that Skyre is more compatible than requiem, and others say the opposite. So, I am confused about which of the two is more compatible with other mods.
Which overhaul is more compatible with the mods I listed above?. Or, should I just skip the major overhauls entirely for a smooth and CTD free experience when combined with so many other mods?
Any advice would be appreciated, as well as any suggestions for other roleplaying enhancing mods I may have missed, and any known conflicts/problems with any of the above mods I have listed.
Once I get my load order finished, I do plan on donating to each of the mod authors in my load order. How much of a donation I can give to each of them may depend on how long my load order is, but I would like to donate at least $100 in total.