I just got Oblivion on the recent Steam deal and have had a hell of a time trying to get mods to work. Everytime I try to play the game, it also crashes at the main menu.
A friend told me that, after exhausting all options, to talk to you guys!
So, first my load order:
Oblivion.esm
Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm
Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm
FCOM_Convergence.esm
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
All Natural Base.esm
HorseCombatMaster.esm
Cobl Main.esm
Better Cities Resources.esm
Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
Cheat Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
Oblivion WarCry EV.esp
Francesco's level up mini mod - Slower skills x1.5.esp
Francesco's 10 days respawn time - 1-20 day lenght rescale.esp
Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp
Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp
DLCHorseArmor.esp
DLCThievesDen.esp
DLCBattlehornCastle.esp
DLCMehrunesRazor.esp
DLCFrostcrag.esp
DLCOrrery.esp
DLCVileLair.esp
DLCSpellTomes.esp
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
Knights.esp
Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCBattlehornCastle - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp
DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp
DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp
Harvest [Flora].esp
Living Economy.esp
Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp
Living Economy - Items.esp
Cutthroat Merchants.esp
OOO-WaterFish.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - No Carrion Rats.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Quest Locations.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Zombies for Body Meshes.esp
FCOM_BobsArmory.esp
FCOM_Convergence.esp
FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp
FCOM_RealSwords.esp
FCOM_WarCry.esp
Toggleable Quantity Prompt.esp
P1DkeyChain.esp
All Natural.esp
All Natural - Real Lights.esp
All Natural - SI.esp
Let There Be Darkness - Cyrodiil.esp
Let There Be Darkness - Cyrodiil + SI.esp
Let There Be Darkness - Knights.esp
Let There Be Darkness - Mehrunes Razor.esp
WindowLightingSystem.esp
Oblivion XP.esp
RenGuardOverhaul.esp
Deadly Reflex 5 - Timed block and 150% damage.esp
DeadlyReflex 5 - Combat Moves.esp
SupremeMagicka.esp
SM_ShiveringIsles.esp
SM_EnchantStaff.esp
MidasSpells.esp
Cobl Glue.esp
Cobl Si.esp
Cobl Races.esp
Cobl Silent Equip Misc.esp
OOO 1.32-Cobl.esp
Better Cities - Full City Defences.esp
MMM-Cobl.esp
Better Cities Full.esp
Better Imperial City.esp
Better Cities - COBL.esp
Better Cities Full FPS Patch.esp
Better Imperial City FPS Patch.esp
Better Cities - VWD of the IC.esp
Better Cities - No LEYAWIIN Flooding.esp
Better Cities .esp