OK so I finally married Lydia but I was wondering if I could possible make her stop being my follower because I hate how she sometimes calls me thane instead of love, can I do this without killing her? and if she stops being my thane will she still keep her armor and still help me battle stuff? will I still be able to give her weapons to use? if I cannot still do those things I guess it would be best to keep her my folowerr and wife...

help...