I have consulted the help topic http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?app=core&module=help, I have also searched and reviewed http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1109473-dumb-question-time/ thread. I can confirm that the checkbox next to "Disable my personal messenger" in the settings portion of my profile is UN-ticked, yet I am not presented with the option to send a personal message anywhere. There is no envelope near anyone's name in postings, and neither is there an option in anyone's profile. There is also no option to message when I click the arrow to the upper right of profile pics and get the popup. In all of these instances I am merely presented with the options to add asa friend, to search topics, and search postings. I have tried the add as a friend thing on a mod in hopes of being able to pm them but no change.
There must be something simple I am doing wrong, but for the life of me I can't figure out what it is. Any constructive suggestions are welcome - thanks in advance!