Is there any way to remake my homestead without deleting the entire DLC. I suppose I just need to delete like a room. I don't think I can even disable the DLC because im on SE. It would really help a lot if I could do it without disabling the dc and losing all my quest data for heartfire. I would also lose my steward and my children and more. I'm looking for some kind of console command or file change

Reload earlier save(s). Thats all your options.