Really annoying recurring issue with marriage, I am married with one of my characters to Ainethach and eventually I'll return to Karthwasten Hall one day to find that I cannot sleep or wait in the house as I am being asked to leave. Although I'm fine if I return during the day, adventurers have unpredictable schedules and so cannot always accomodate this.

Anyone else have this issue, or related issues? Tried reloading save, but it just happened for the second time yesterday.

sadly another bethesda bug.

I can think of a solution. Install the unofficial patches

I'm on xbox unfortunately. Thanks, though.

My Altmer guy (way back when) married Ysolda.
Great wife - excellent actually - but I got this reaction when visiting her little home in Shor's Stone!
Trespasser! Leave please.
Crazy, right?
So I moved her into Lakeview Manor (and dressed her like a tavern wench).
Much better.

that thing happen to me in collage of winterhold

Wait, you can dress your spouse? How? I'm married to a non-companion NPC.

I never met this bug, thankfully. Ysolda never told me to leave the house.