I beat yes man with a pool cue I keep going back to my game and he isn't coming back up and I can loot him.
He always comes back, there is no way to kill him permanently without say using mods or the debug console on the PC. He's probably standing outside the Tops.
I looked for Col. Moore at Hoover dam, she wasn't there.
Unless you killed her she's at the dam, probably near her office in the lower levels. If the NCR questline is still attainable you should have the quest from Crocker to report to Moore making her easy to locate.
However by the sounds of it you've past the point of no return in Mr. Houses questline and its not possible to side with the NCR any longer. And as you killed house the only option remaining is Yes Man. Who can't actually die he just comes back.