I surmise from your post that you aren't familiar with RPGs, at least not TES RPGs. I have two friends that never played RPGs because they just didn't think they were worth the effort and were just not interested in the genre (the closest they came was Diablo). However, both rented Skyrim, created characters, played for a bit, then walked away disappointed just to come back several days later to buy the game and give it another chance. They were hooked and both will agree that this is, at least, one of the best games they have ever had the pleasure to play. One of those friends had no idea that there were DLCs available when I had a conversation with him a few months ago. He was excited and, as soon as he got home from work that day, purchased the lot of them.
My suggestion is, don't toss it in the trash. Just set it down for a while. Perhaps you'll get an itch like they did to actually see the game from the paradigm it's supposed to be seen from. You may find yourself hooked like my friends did. And, BTW, I held out no hope that either of these guys would like this game. I just didn't think it was to their tastes. I was dead wrong.
Now, if you were to rate *appreciation* between me and those other two guys, I would say that I have a much deeper appreciation of the game than they do. I'd tell them about stuff I found in the game world or something I did (that those of us on this forum have done a million times) and they'd get all excited saying that they never noticed or tried that. But that comes with experience in the TES world.