The look kind of depends on you, so it's impossible for me to say if it works or not. I know I can't pull off that whole look (not that I don't like it, it just doesn't work for me). For me messed up hair, designer full rim glasses, a striped sweater, fitted jeans (not skinny) and some sort of high tops is what I've found works best for me, but I know for other people it would look really out of place. If you think you can rock that look then go for it, as long as you're confident and feel good with what you're wearing you'll be fine. Good luck dude.

Seriously, don't worry about that - what works for your won't work for others, and what you think looks good won't necessarily be what she likes. There's just no point worrying about it; I mean seriously, if a girl thought you were a great guy but didn't want to date you because of the cut of your jeans, would you really want to date her? It's just superficial and no one really cares that much, and it's better to be comfortable and easy going than dressed as someone else and feeling out of place or awkward because of it.

Looking forward to the follow up thread! :foodndrink:

First impressions are important too, no matter how much you deny it we're all shallow. There's no doubt that his chances are much better if he's looking good then dressed like a slob. Like I said before, if you can rock it, just wear it because it's all about confidence.

Yeah, but there's a difference between dressing smart and dressing to impress - wear what you feel is your best, but don't go dressing to emulate some imaginary ideal man, because it either doesn't exist or is beyond your reach. Just don't go out and buy a new outfit - wear what looks nice, but don't dress as what you think she will like; because chances are, it will be both out of your comfort zone and not quite what she would imagine either. Seriously, you're just putting extra pressure on yourself, when it seems you look pretty cool anyways (but that's the whole of my point with appearances to begin with...). Just be comfortable with yourself - your outfit means nothing if you're comfortable in it. After all, if we were out for a cool outfit, we would take a catalogue out on a date

That's exactly what I meant sorry guess I just misunderstood.

Wait, what do I do if she says no? *panics*

Don't you have to turn the tickets into diamonds first, though?

Haha!

Post more. Obviously your e-peen just wasn't big enough. Needs moar threads!

Either move on, or wait. And while you're waiting, try doing something insane and awesome. I'm not saying that'll instantly get you in any girl's pants, but it might make her reevaluate her perception of you.

Did I mention she knows I like her and we've hung out before?

Also she flirts with me a lot, good sign?

That means she's also waiting on you to ask her out, she's not gonna do it, you're gonna have to. Yes, good sign. Don't take 'no' for an answer. It's not like you're going to get 'no' for an answer anyway, you're being backed up by BGSF here. We're the kings of smooth talking and suave. :nerd:

No seriously though, you can't fail when Holy Assassin is on your side. :thumbsup:

As the poster said above. Good sign.

And be casual about it. aka yourself.

Wish she would ask me out...

Yeah, we all wish girls would as us guys out. Unfortunately, that would by default make them the dominant partner. You don't want that.

If only there was some sort of universal formula that worked on all females. But that would require all females to be the same. But no, they just have to be individual and unique. Life svcks.

I beg to differ....

I was just trying to come up with some snappy comeback, but Tausig just proved my point. You're smart, Tausig! :thumbsup:

I want that.

Just look her in the eye, and say.

"I rub youu."

.... no, but do look her in the eye and say" Hey, we have known eachother for a while. Wanna go out!"

Then prepare to run if need be...

Keep begging. It ain't gonna change. :shrug:

Well, it's pretty damn rare for a girl to just give a straight up no usually they will just say something like, "Oh sorry I'm busy." and not offer to reschedule. If she says no, please don't be a creepy stalker and keep asking, it's so rare for a girl to say no, if they do they really mean it. If she gives a weak excuse I personally think its worth asking a few more times, but by the second or third time asking and it doesn't look like she's making any effort to get together, just move on. Yeah it svcks to put yourself out there and get rejected, but welcome to being a man.

Good point.

If she says no, but is genuinely busy and actually wants to go, then ask to take her some other time like "next weekend" or whatever. If she keeps denying, you're going to have to give it up though, just for the sake of saving yourself from looking desperate.

In the meanwhile, make her feel how much of a mistake it was to say no. Slowly she'll realize what she's missing and come back instantly. If nothing works, drop my name and she'll be at your toes.

Just kidding, use cheesy pick-up lines instead.

No no no you've got it all wrong, You're supposed to grab her from behind and say "I laav you"

I use the oldest trick in the book !!!


Hit them in the head with a big piece of stick and drag them by he hair.


Works like a charm but apparently there a law about that ... pfttttt Flintstones didn't say nothing about that.

"Hey, would you like to go out some time?"

It is remarkably effective.