I'll admit I've botched several attempts in my younger days. They were incredibly hilarious to my friends who were in ear-shot at the time. Im sure it would be entertaining to watch... However at my own expense.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbwTcEYUKCc


Younger days? Dude, you're 17. You don't get to pull "when I were a lad" stories until you're at least 21!

By "younger days" I meant last year. And perhaps the year before that...

Technically they are "younger days".

:clap: Good one :clap:

I ask them if they want steak. I can cook a mean steak.

If she was vegetarian, I doubt you'd be leaving a very good impression

Well, then the steak did it's secondary role. Can't date a girl who refuses or whines about eating a free steak.

Walk up to her, put your hands around her and grin as you lick your teeth and make bestial noises. If there is no restraining order filed, than you have something going.

I gave up on having a g/f a long time ago, like 6 months ago.
For me girls just bring me trouble I don;t need.

I want to be with some one, but I have trouble finding anyone who I can get along with and have similar likes.
I think part of my problem is that I am too nice, I watch shows on T.V and see these great women, who look great and seem to be a great person and they always have lame b/f's who treat them like dirt.

Maybe I have a skewered view of the world, but all my friends who don't care seem to get more dates than me.
I guess it doesn't help that I try to act like a (imo) guy should and open doors and say yes mam/sir. I also don't do drugs, I drink but its very rarely and never enough to get drunk and I dislike bars/clubs.

I guess I will find some one eventually, but I have to face it that I am a anti-social shut in.

Walk up to her, tell her you two ARE going out on friday, and tell her to dress nice, and that she is gonna pay for th eevening. Thats how it is done. Not correctly, but you still would of asked her out none the less. Or oyu could always ask her to go to the movies, and if she is interested in you that way, its a date.

Whatever you do, just dont say 'Thank God' afterwards.

Took that the complete wrong way at first...

Anyways, am I the only one that finds it odd you're planning all the way ahead to February just to ask the girl out?

On topic though - movies are not always the best first date, as there isn't very much conversation going on (though for all I know, you may have known this person your entire life or something). I would personally go with either going out to eat somewhere, or hanging out somewhere like a mall.

All your choice though.

What about "Thank the Nine!"

Should he say "By the glory of Sithis" instead?

That actually reminds me of a funny story about a few months ago, when my friends and I were at the beach. We were all standing at the bar there. (Not the kind that serves alcoholic drinks, just soda and juice and whatnot) and we find this incredibly hot girl walk by. Now, I won't lie, we're all gamer nerds. But we don't exactly look it as we take care of our appearance. However one of my friends goes "By Azura, By Azura By Azura..." when the chick walks by.

She was like; "Excuse me?" and we all burst into laughter as he tried to cover it up, saying that "Oh sorry, I thought you were this other girl I knew named Azura." :blush:

He didn't think he had said it loud enough that she heard, but she did.

Good times...

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In my honest opinion, "lets go to the movies" says, "I want to fondle you in the back row."

Try for something a little different. See what's happening in your town, find some sort of event that you know she'll be into- she likes art? Find an art gallery. That's me all out of ideas but I'm sure you get what I'm saying.

I would say "[name], would you like to accompany me to dinner?".

And if she is a bleach blond, ask her what shade of blond she is, and respond with "Really? you seem like a dirty blond.".

That is probably one of the greatest stories Ive ever heard.

By the way, can someone explain "JAHO" to me? This terminology is unfamiliar to a wee hermit all the way out in the countryside of NZ.

*Edit* Please I temporarily lost my manners.

JAHO = Just Ask Her/Him Out.

Usually on these forums, when someone posts a relationship thread asking "What should I do? I like this girl/boy.." the unanimous response is "Just Ask Her Out".

It's a BGSF thing, not many people outside here knows it. Regardless of region.

I hold the answer you seek!

Just Ask Her Out :grad:

Damnit! Ninja'd :toughninja:

I always tell my friends to 'Just Ask Her Out'.... And then I learn its the same girl he JAHO'd 2 months ago.

Aaah. I see. Thank you!

Now to answer the OP's original question. How to JAHO. I'd usually skip the details but as I am free, and full of BS I need to get off my chest, I'll go ahead and answer him.

How Exactly To JAHO:

One must look at each word carefully, anolyze it, and understand it.

Just: One must be just and fair in order to maintain a balanced relationship.

Ask: For one must ask the woman of his liking, rather than forcing her, or begging her.

Her: For it is all about her. Not about you, or me, or your paternal third cousin. Her.

Out: For if you are to ask her "in", it would defeat the purpose of asking in the first place as she is most likely already in. "Out" is the location in which everything takes place.

Master the principles of these words. A thousand women may come, and you shall have a thousand positive replies without failure.

*bows in humility*