and its petty and self destructive to do the oposite of what every one else is doing when every one is finally getting it right.
Yet in my personal view (and the devs' team apparently) it's exactly the other way around and what everyone else is doing can't be much further away from getting it right, so I dunno what you're really getting at :shrug:
Though I'm pretty optimistic that they won't reduce it into some kind of banol moronic grunting hack and slash that you fear of. I like my fantasy settings sustained by a deep, non-linear and engrossing fantastical elements at its core yet comes in a nitty gritty quasi-realistic way of presentation. It just feels more convincing as this very fantastical alternative world that you can pretend to live in, in my opinion.