I just realized my character really only spends maybe 10% of his time in combat. Actually, that's on a school night. If I have all night to play without interruption (like tonnight) he'll spend even less than 10% it seems. Most of the time, we'll spend our time walking thru the game, admiring sights, studying landmarks, looking for places to attack.
And then there's the town areas. My Nord will spend a LOT of time just renting a room, sitting down in the pub, and listening to the repetitive banter and songs. well....I find it repetitive, he likes it, though!
I'm talking about my Skyrim character Th?r a'Z?ne, but truth is, this also applies to some of my Oblivion characters as well. They also spend most of their time doing activities that aren't constant melee. Combat is actually a small portion of my games.
It gets my adrenaline going, and when it's all over, the relaxation is divine.