Which mod is better Illuminated order or lichcraft?

Which is better: a relationship that is fulfilling on all levels: physical, sixual, spiritual, social, whatever and a relationship where the six is just awesome? Ideally, the two are combined -- which can be done post IO with lichcraft. But if I had to choose one? IO, all the way.

Get both http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1011375-lichcraft-or-illuminated-order/

Lichcraft is kinda buggy and I've noticed more crashes when using it. Also the latest version has some player unfreindly messages whenever a character dies even if you're not playing a lich. Somewhat immersion breaking. Other than that it's a great mod. Lots of features and fun.