fallout 3 was fun in 1st person so everytime there was a slo-mo perforation of the enemy it took me out of the scene and became boring. if i want to watch somebody else land a epic smackdown death scene i'd watch an action movie.
daggerfall had no such death cutscene. neither did diablo 2. of course these are the 2 best games in history.
the skyrim demo video had a wolf killing cutscene and the audience cheered, the audience also cheered a duke nukem scene when duke kicked the enemys eye into the foatball goal posts.... should have made this optional.
loadtimes:
skyrim should let you paint or craft during loadtimes, otherwise i am pulled out of the immersion ...again.
a good game, just like a good movie(like the matrix), will make you forget about time and forget about your unemployment pay running out soon. TES has figured that out better then other studios, gears123 is fun but watching the main char do forward rolls turns it into a comedy with no real fear that he is in danger.
remember in obliv when you fought rats in the opening sewer dungeon, those things were huge and very believable..that my friends is immersion.