There you go mate! Glad to hear that. Things are overwhelming a bit at first but we will get the swing of things and getting some ideas from other players is a great way to save some hard learning experiences..
I've only been doing Minutmen missions so I can build more settlements. Every settlement takes strategy for defense. A lot of gamers don't know how to properly set one up and fail miserably. But that's another topic. (I like to enclose my settlers so they don't go out and try to be a hero).
I like to build my own deluxe suite or just even a room for me only. The Castle and Sanctuary even have a patio for Dogmeat. I have the Night Person perk so I build during the day and quest at night. It's fun. Just stack 3 flights of stairs, then lay floors down, a wall and build. I put a ladder in the room so I can access the roof. I just hate that items fall throught the floor. I stopped decorating with alcohol, weapons, gear, etc. But being 50 feet above the enemies + my VATS build makes defending my settlements fun. I put a tourette in each corner and rip my enemies apart. Then loot them all and scrap all their weapons and metal gear for more steel and wood.
So far level 36 on PS4 normal difficulty has been a blast. 12 settlements. 3 untouched because I decided to build my own bachelorette pad and decided to use the mats to build in existing settlements.