This really needs to happen. I've started a new game using Arwen's tweaks and using RH_Ironsights is AWESOME - cos Arwen doesn't use any new weapons, it's fully compatible, with a little easily made patch in F03Edit to add some weapon effects to the new guns added by RH_Ironsights. If the new FWE models were added it'd be great. Rogue Hallow is in the process of adding CFW models included in EVE, so it'll happen eventually.
RH_Ironsights is mostly compatible with v.4.3 of my Realism Tweaks, but with a few minor animation conflicts, loss of my weapon effects on a few weapons, and some minor damage / spread balance issues.
Version 4.4 of my mod should be 100% compatible with RH_Ironsights.