I commend you for not simply complaining about complainers and making a constructive argument instead. You're certainly correct that some amount of patience is required - while most of the big issues will hopefully be fixed quickly it's unrealistic to expect that all of these problems can be taken care of within a few weeks.
However while having members stomping around gnashing their teeth may not actually speed the process up it's also not unexpected. It happened with FO3, it happened with Oblivion, it happened with Morrowind, and it's happened on plenty of non-Bethesda forums I've been on. Heck I remember when Anarchy Online was released, the situation on the forums got so bad they had to set the entire thing to 'mod/admin' approval for new threads and replies.
Bethesda and Obsidian are working on the problems and have already begun to fix them. Patience is a good suggestion but however good the intentions a thread like this only serves to poke the hornet's nest.