I usually wait around 6 months before doing the Main Quest.
I waited about 4.5 years to really get into the Oblivion MQ
Honestly, I've never understood this concept. After all, the main quest is kind of the "point" of the game, so why would you just ignore it for so long. Seems strange, personally. (different people, different opinions, of course)
It is Bethesda game, MQ never was as good as side quests.
True. Which is why I get it out of the way in my first playthrough - I don't grind it right out, I take the time to do sidequests as I go, but I
do pursue it.... MQ in Oblivion takes you to Weynon; ok, while I'm there, I obviously stop at the city to sell off stuff and talk to people, get distracted by some sidequests. Etc, etc, etc. Do the MQ as I go, but don't let it drag me around by the nose.
It's on later characters that I tend to ignore it (or only do the parts that happen to be in front of me, or are parallel to a path I'm already taking).
edit: only part of the OB main quest I felt pressured on was the one with the actual timer. But, then, I've been playing RPGs of various types for thirty years - I'm really used to taking all the time you need to do random sidequests, even while there's a giant meteor hanging in the sky about to annihilate all life. :tongue: