There should be romance in Skyrim. The name of the game is immersion, yes? You want to cook, sleep, shun fast travel and walk for miles, chop wood, farm, fish, play instruments, count the stars, but not have relations?? And relationships are the whole point, as posters have said. A spouse gives players that much more incentive to protect, which is what being a hero is all about.
I think I would miss the absence of romance in Skyrim exactly because its so immersive and realistic. The Scrolls seamless blend of social realism, metaphysical mysticism and high fantasy is what truly sets it apart. And since six is our primary function in life and all....(see: metal gear,) why save a world in which you can't get your groove on?
I agree it should be tasteful and discrete. Although I'd like more than a blackout. Take out the moaning and give us one tasteful bareback vignette
(avoid faces and thus the uncanny valley, and no need for nudity) And you add in a little Soule romance theme
voila!
The really cool part would be tying marital benefits into gameplay. I envision it thusly, if I may: create one template romance "quest" that is repeatable and non-specific - similar to what Todd has talked about in regards to "lesser" companions. Take a handful of npcs in each town, chosen by the radiant A.I. for being single, right sixual preference, not racist against you, etc. Once these characters reach a high disposition, romance becomes available. You go through the courtship trials we are all familiar with, little dating missions: impress, protect, provide. Culminating in a little chapel ceremony :-3 and you can even hand out invitations to your friends. But you must own a house for anyone to marry you...
Because then, when I come home from adventuring, the fire is lit, a meal is prepared (8' o clock sharp), receive a stat boost for making love, etc. Isnt that nice?
I think that template could work across the board. Obviously still a lot of hard work. But this is Radiant A.I. here people. Theres no need for a special storyline, cuz its One Love
Only needs a little extra dialogue here and there. Just a few "love yous" and the like. Plus if you become a widow/divorcé you can try it again (poor sap)
But yeah, wild horses couldnt drag me away from skyrim, its basically frosting on top of even more frosting, and this game will make diabetics of us all!!
Be seeing you!