1. Not a valid point. I want the DLC for it's "other" content.
Then live with it. Bethesda own the franchise, and Obsidian designed it.
Their choice to raise the cap.
Your choice to buy it. Drink a cup of concrete and harden up.
2. So.. Self-gimping? Neither this is a valid point, we shouldn't have to gimp ourselves just cause we're forced to level up.
It's not self gimping at all. If you play a melee character, you
don't use guns. Or explosives. So use the guns skill, or any of your unused wep skills as a dump stat, and it has precisely and exactly zero impact on how you play the game. There are plenty of specific weapon related perks that you can select those to zero effect on your char, and the sum total of the "ruination" of your FO experience will be some 25 HP.
Of course, if anyone who doesn't like this plays on PC, all the
sturm und drang is really just a case of complaining to complain....