I love Lydia so much. She's hardy and hearty, a little cold, a little distant, but faithful and determined. She was the http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/596954956027651023/166CEA26823D9D9C7FE8E265C173B90D3B23D439/ to http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/596954956044553836/324BEA039AECF29C8D755463ABA06B546C762BAF/ concept, who is also cold, distant, and determined. The only thing, and I mean only thing, that bothers me about Lydia is that she always expresses such exasperation when I want to trade with her.

Sometimes I open her inventory to take things from her.

Sometimes I open her inventory to give her something like a weapon, or armor, that she can (and sometimes does) use.

I'm not always trying to give you that heavy warhammer that I want to sell but don't feel like carrying! She should have a couple more options for speaking in the situation where I ask to trade with her. Perhaps she only says this if I give her something heavy that she doesn't plan on using, like a warhammer or something. If that's too complex, just give her a few other random comments to say. Also, throw in a few "silent" options as well! It wouldn't kill me if she just didn't say anything at all from time to time.

I "accidentaly" killed her during a fight with a cave bear on my first character because of this. Now with my second I'm trying to get some lisbian love going on. All she does is sit at the house anyway. And she eats all the bread and sweetrolls she wants. Why does she have to complain all the time. Oh she acts like she doesn't but I hear her munching away up there.

She's gonna pay for acting as if she doesn't enjoy being my slave housecarl. Sometimes I get carried away, swing at everything, and I don't see her. But I see her the majority of the time.

She is a great furniture in the Whiterun house.

i got rid of her for this reason!

oh, so you dont want a better sword and shield? its a burden is it?

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LOL to this. :thumbsup:

I use Brenor(sp?) from Morthal cause hes such a badass and doesnt complain.

It always make me want to go, "You don't have to say it like that! You b****. No wonder nobody wants you."

I like her, I just wish she had a slightly more developed set of talk options. Maybe including a "not talk" option.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9x8MenjAmc

anyone else have a problem marrying lydia? her only condition is that you have to be thane of whiterun. i have the amulet of mara that you need to marry someone but she doesn't say [censored] about the marrying or whatever lol

She's bugged. Can't marry her even if she's flagged marriageable. There' some console wizardry to unstick her, but I do not know it by heart.

I actually saw here body floating in a river last night. I killed her several days before that. It was fun.

I have the same problem. Maybe she only likes Redguards.

thats messed up lol. ill jus use aela the huntress i guess lol

Make a txt in your Skyrim folder, name it ForceMar, and put this in it:



Click on Lydia, type bat ForceMar in the console, and presto, you can marry Lydia. This works with almost anyone, too.

I told Lydia she could carry "Deez"

i can't fix that bug since i play on ps3

I liked Lydia, and was planning on marrying her in the future. What is wrong with her conversation options?

I admit I haven't asked her to carry overly cumbersome stuff (max was a steel armor, was that 35 carry points or something?) along with a few greatswords and she didn't complain

All that I've heard was "I'm sworn to carry your burdens". Well! I guess she doesn't really like being a beast woman of burden? Then again, who does?

A giant solved my Lydia problem for me...

Have to hand it to her, though: The way she just stood there firing arrow after arrow into it in vain as it was bearing down took balls.

Exactly what the guy said. I wish she'd stop complaining about all the sweet weapons and armour Im giving her... I mean the odd bear pelt cant be that heavy right??

Lol, my friend, my fiancee and myself were talking about this the other night. It's funny how she's so very upset that she has to follow you around and carry all your stuff.

I honestly just got rid of her. Since companions are stuck to a base level depending on when you first meet them (IE: Lydia will always be level 2-5 depending on when you got to Whiterun and acquired her.) which I think is ridiculous.

thats dumb, the your followers should level up when you have them with you

Hopefully its a bug that theyre planning to fix. Some other people have looked into it in more detail and their finding are somewhere on this forum.

I hope so too. I've been running solo for a long time. (From level 8 until level 29 on this character. Was level 32 on my Bosmer Archer Theif but quit him because Shadowmere didn't spawn out of the lake.) Right now, I'm going to wait until I hit about level 35ish or so and pick up the Sword-Maiden for a while.