And here's my current load order:
All Natural Base.esm
TamrielTravellers.esm
TNR ALL RACES FINAL.esp
Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp
UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp
Oblivion Citadel Door Fix.esp
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp
SM Plugin Refurbish - SI.esp
MOBS SI.esp
MOBS SI Optional Combat Settings.esp
Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael.esp
All Natural.esp
All Natural - SI.esp
All Natural - Real Lights.esp
WindowLightingSystem.esp
AliveWaters.esp
AliveWaters - Koi Addon.esp
AliveWaters - Slaughterfish Addon.esp
Corpse Equip Automatic.esp
Willful Resistance.esp
Enhanced Economy.esp
Crowded Cities 15.esp
Crowded Roads Revisited_ChorrolCheydinhal_5.esp
Crowded Roads Revisited_GoldRoad_5.esp
Crowded Roads Revisited_GreenRoad_5.esp
Crowded Roads Revisited_YellowRoad_5.esp
Immersive Travelers.esp
PTRoamingNPCs.esp
DarNifiedUI Config Addon.esp
Map Marker Overhaul.esp
Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp
Creatures Alive v1.3.esp
Zombie Diversity.esp
TamrielTravellers.esp
kuerteeWanderingEncounters.esp
Skeleton Diversity.esp
JADICMothPriests.esp
JADImperialApartments01Temple.esp
JADImperialApartments02Temple.esp
JADImperialApartments03Temple.esp
VOILA.esp
VOILA - Soldiers of Empire.esp
Knights.esp
Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 DT.esp
Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.32 DT.esp
Enhanced Vegetation [125%].esp
talkwithyourhands2.esp
Enhanced Economy - House prices.esp
Fizzle.esp
SM Combat Hide.esp
Deadlier Traps.esp
Combat Behavior 2.11b.esp
kuerteeAttributeAndSkillBasedDamageModifiers.esp
Duke Patricks - Near Miss Magic And Arrows Alert The Target.esp
Duke Patricks - Actors Can Miss Now.esp
QTdof.esp
Bashed Patch, 0.esp
OBGE - Liquid Water.esp