Just to note, Leydenne, I think you're being unfairly judgmental about that. Would you have said the same thing to someone who said they found great joy in playing Fallout 4?
I take it you've seen the Fallout 4 E3 presentation. Todd Howard likely peed himself a little describing Fallout 4, as did many of the audience members after seeing it. That's how excited they were over a game. And there are two sides to every spectrum. It's a bit unfair to welcome one, but not the other.
I, myself, am finding it difficult to play Fallout 4 after being in the same situation OP described. Bethesda games aren't supposed to force feed you like that. Freedom is supposed to be paramount. If I don't want to deal with the dog, it should not be shoved down my throat. That is very clearly unacceptable, and takes a lot of fun and enjoyment out of a roleplaying game since it seems as though Bethesda is outright telling you that you have to play their role and not your own.