Remember finding out that the cups and plates were nothing but some decorations for home? Or that we cant use shears, shovels and tongs? I want to change that. Is there any mod that allows you to use them, or at least use them for crafting?

Thanks in advance!

You might be interested in http://www.nexusmods.com/oblivion/mods/41774/? by Munch Universe, CLShade, Setsuna515 and the CB Team. You can use shears, tongs, cloth bolts, several food items and other things to craft with. Craftybits is the most in-depth crafting system I have ever experienced in a video game. It comes with a 78-page manual. You can craft everything from canoes and yurts, to weapons and armor, to clothing and jewelry. You can engage in dying, cheesemaking, beekeeping and a host of other activities. Craftybits is an entire game unto itself.

Two more clutter options:

http://www.nexusmods.com/oblivion/mods/22089/? by RedBag gives items prices, as in Morrowind, so that you can at least sell them.

http://www.nexusmods.com/oblivion/mods/32366/? by Muddy lets you wield beer bottles, brooms, candle stands, hand scythes, shovels, pick axes, knives and forks as weapons.