Aphotic:
Not those hows. When talking about Myths, stories passed on from generation to generation as a form of oral history, it's important to realize that people will think of things differently, stress some aspects more then others or completely misinterpret it. http://www.imperial-library.info/mwbooks/monomyth.shtml and http://www.imperial-library.info/mwbooks/varietiesoffaith.shtml are prime examples of all these behaviors.
So when each story echoes the general message, that Trinimac and his followers set out to stop the Chimer lead by Boethia, but failed and literally fell from grace. Thus setting the Chimer truly apart from the Altmer.
So again, why does it matter which story is true? They can all be traced back to the same event.
Sorry, I shouldn't have jumped down your throat like that. But you could have just said that (in bold).
Syronj's post was also incredibly informative.
EDIT: What this is, isn't just to get a question answered, but just to have my own facts straight, and because I was unable to find any cohesive source, I find it worthwhile to ask about the topic here.