I am woman, hear me roar.
Obviously the females are lacking a bit on the numbers side around here, but we seem to be doing better on this poll for some strange reason, the guys must all be asleep. Tomb Raider can manage 1/4 ratio in online presence, which pretty much matched the numbers in my local area, at least before the last game came out. I have met lots of male fans of the Elder Scrolls games, have yet to meet a female one around here.
I have no preferences to the six of the character I play, either will do. Not an online player, and multiplayer games will never entice me online, but had no trouble with the Tomb Raider (GOL) or Uncharted 2 players when I had fun trying out online co-op. No one has ever given me strange looks for playing games, although I used to get a few pitying looks and disparaging remarks from the EB guys for still being a Tomb Raider fan when I picked up the latest Tomb Raider game. Last game fixed them!