getting married consists of, 'you wanna?' -'yeah, do you?' 'Yeah, ok let's do it.' and the next day you get married in a brief but nice ceremony. At my wedding to Benor, a warrior, the INSTANT I said "I do," at the altar, he vanished from my screen. i was still locked into the scene and couldnt turn my head to look for him --but then I heard the door open and close. He had left! I laughed my butt off to realize my new hubby had waited just long enough for me to say "I do" and then....ran all the way back to his hometown and sat down in the tavern for a mug! ..typical.
After tracking him down, he said I should move in with him which I agreed to. And then I saw our new home! THE GUARD BARRACKS. Oh and I had to pick the lock to get in. But, no new bride would be deterred, I picked the lock and completed the quest to meet my new spouse at our new home...and I met our new roommates too, all the city guards! I didn't bother trying to find which single bed bunk would be "ours" because he didn't seem to really care. He cooked me a meal and then went to the bar again. Gosh, married life is awesome!
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Seriously? No relationship quests building up from an innocent first date to a proposal? No honeymoon? No "woohoo" option in bed (re: Sims). No married life quests like orcs steal dinner or how to have dinner with his in laws without fireballing his mother? Nothing?
So here's my suggestion: make an all-out relationship, companion and marriage DLC. Let us use the character creator to make the perfect spouse, or just combat companion, give them a name, select a voice, a personality type and let Skyrim pick quests and things to flesh them out. Make more of a meal out of this dish -instead of fast food!